Ok, so it’s that time of year again, where I talk about something sad that really sucks. You may have already gone through it before, but I bring it up from time to time because it’s important. This blog is about purging, which is when you throw away your pretty, feminine clothes because of guilt, shame or fear of being found out. Sometimes it’s not clothes that you get rid of, but instead sex toys and naughty playthings.
Revisiting….
Here’s an excerpt from a blog I wrote in August 2018 and I said exactly how I felt then. There’s no point in re-wording this part. I feel the exact same way now:
‘Purging doesn’t take away your frilly sissy feelings. Getting rid of everything doesn’t ‘fix’ you. All you’re doing is throwing gorgeous clothes and other items away because you’re hoping to appease the guilt or shame you feel. Those feelings often come from others, from what they feel and what they’ve projected onto you. And it’s not your problem! Purging is a true tragedy because it solves nothing. You will always want to dress again. You won’t be able to shake it and you’ll find yourself beginning to shop and buy again.
I want more than anything for you to love yourself and embrace who you are. I never want you to live a feminine life that’s limited. If you’re struggling with feelings of wanting to purge, call me up….’
Help If You Need It
I want to help you deal with this if you’re wrestling with it. Yes, we all know I give great phone ???????? but that’s not my only superpower. I’m also a good listener and have great advice at the ready!
Be safe, all! See you next week. ❤
I love this Ms Amber!
So right, purging does nothing to assuage your feelings. We are all to familiar with the roller coaster which comes with Femnizaton (an many other kinks). This is why YOU need Mistress! We are here to work with you, support you in your journey and if that means talking you through a bad spell, so be it.
Learning to PUT away (during vulnerable times) VS Purging away is a valuable lesson we can help YOU with!
Oh Mistress Amber, how true your observations are, and even sadder, the reality that one has rid himself of those treasured possessions forever.
Unlikely as it may be, is the prospect of repurchasing said treasures at the local thrift shop where they were bid their fond farewell.
Or is it unlikely?
Impulse buying is for many, the thrill of the hunt.
We do find ourselves (at least me) unable to resist that one (or several) items. Guilt? Of course.
Fear of discovery? Definitely!
Over the years practicality and circumstance has led me to give up some of my wardrobe. There was a Mistress a number of years ago that was delighted to receive a substantial donation, and then confessed “I kept all of it for myself!”
Not everyone understandably has the ability to retain everything they buy. It just pains me to think of someone having to give up something they had the courage to buy with confidence.
Me too. When sissies and cross dressers purge, it breaks my heart!