No one could blame you for wanting it in the ass. I’d actually be more surprised if you didn’t. I know there are some ‘it’s an exit, not an entrance’ people who are shaking their head saying ‘Nope!’ But why are you so uptight? If you’ve never tried anal sex, you’re missing out!

Ass Play Is Messy, Butt….

I’m not gonna lie and say that ass play is romantic. It’s fun and feels taboo, but it’s usually dirty and not in the naughty way. But so what? Sex is all about body fluids and licking and touching and a little bit of sweat. If it’s not, you’re doing it wrong. Plus, you’re washable and so is your partner.

Rules For Solo Play Or Dirty Duet

Ass play can certainly be on the menu if you’re with someone else, but maturbating your butt works just fine when you’re by yourself, too….and it doesn’t necessarily mean you’re gay! Either way, the rules are the same. Use clean toys with soft edges. Trim your nails, be gentle until you determine your tolerance and don’t be afraid of lube. Also, if you’re playing with another person and they aren’t being gentle or listening to your feedback, they don’t deserve to play with you.

Anal play might feel odd at first and stretching is normal, but it should never hurt. If it does, your toy is too big, or you’re not respecting the butt. That means it’s too much too fast. So….slow down, relax, don’t clench and if you have to stop, do it. Regroup and try again. Taking it in the ass can amp up your orgasms and thrill the hell out of you…..and once you’re hooked on the ‘nothing else quite like it’ feeling, you’ll wonder why you didn’t start sooner!