So here’s a question. Have you ever had the fantasy of being catcalled by a group of ruggedly handsome construction workers? Maybe your fantasy is you crossing a busy street, stopping traffic? (Just who is that girl?) And it’s ok if that’s your dream. We all want that. And letting your ‘sissy‘ show is the way to get it.

But…..

And I know what some of are you thinking…..Amber, I’ve never done that before. I’ve never gone outside en femme, no one but a Mistress has ever seen me this way. Or maybe you would argue that you ‘don’t pass’ the way you wish you did. You’re too tall, you have an Adam’s apple, your ‘build’ isn’t what you wish it was. You love all the fashion info that you get in Amber Academy and you can even afford something girly here and there. But you can’t go outside like that, not you. No way.

Feminine Confidence Is Up To You

Well, there are those of you that can and are digging in your heels being stubborn. What you need is a nudge from a Mistress that has had it with your stalling. But all of you ‘I don’t pass’ sissies and cross dressers out there, think about this. There’s something about feeling beautiful that shows on your face. It’s like you have a secret, and when people see it, they want to know who you are and what you know. True story….I once saw a girl in downtown Portland that was cute, but there was just something about her! Everyone she passed smiled at her and perked up when they saw her. It was like she knew everyone, or maybe everyone knew her. I was literally racking my brain to determine if maybe she was famous? There are tv shows filmed in and around Portland sometimes, so it was definitely a possibility.

When I stopped her to talk, I complimented her bag. A little more convo and I realized she wasn’t famous at all. She was literally just a confident person in a new dress, steppin’ out into the rare Portland sunshine and she exuded charisma and positivity. The same girl could have walked down the same street without the confidence and would have blended into the crowd. But she didn’t let that happen. She had a choice and she made it.

Private Sissy, Publc Confidence

The beauty that you feel on Skype dressing and modeling new clothes for me….I love it. Don’t misread. But you don’t have to be wearing feminine clothes to make a statement in public. You don’t have to pack up that confidence and love for yourself just because our session is over and you’re going to put your clothes away. You don’t have to hide who you are. It doesn’t matter if you’re wearing a dress or a suit or a plastic trash bag. You can be a private sissy with a public confidence that makes people look up and wonder who you are.

Make them wonder!