It’s January and it’s time to set some girl goals. January feels fresh, doesn’t it? It’s like a clean sheet of paper. It’s a new start and that means a re-set for you. You can make this year anything you want it to be and no one is stopping you, so don’t be stopping yourself either! So…what is a girl goal, you ask? Well, it’s just something you aspire to have, be or do that furthers your feminine journey. It’s kinda like a resolution that has a specific focus. Feel free to borrow one or any number of these girl goals for yourselves. These aren’t just examples, they’re ready to be on your own list as is. Which of these do you want to accomplish in 2018 to fine tune your feminine self?
Girl Goals — Help Yourself To Any And All
1. Using ‘About Face Part I‘ and ‘About Face Part II‘ s a guide, go make-up shopping in a grocery store and/or department store.
2. Move away from solely shopping online for lingerie and girl clothes and find a smaller, non-chain store boutique in town and meet a few clerks to help you shop.
3. Clear out all mens underpants from your dresser and replace with panties instead.
4. Tell a close female friend that you are a cross dresser or sissy.
5. Venture out to a bar en femme.
6. Toss all masculine colognes and replace with feminine (or at least unisex) fragrances.
7. Schedule a mani and pedi at local (or non-local) salon.
8. Ask a store clerk for a proper bra fitting.
9. Make a call to Mistress Amber if you have never done it.
10. Create a Facebook or Instagram for your feminine self, master the art of sissy selfies and make some like-minded friends online.
11. Schedule a photo shoot (like glamour shots) of you at your feminine best!
12. Buy your first beginner’s anal plug or dildo.
13. Wear panties or stockings under your work clothes.
14. Buy a girly shampoo, bodywash and shower puff for bathing.
15. Join a website and/or write an ad in order to reach out and connect to someone that you could play with.
16. Take the step to talking to your Dr. about hormones if you;ve been on the fence for awhile.
17. Using my Vault page as a guide, read every Amber Academy I’ve written.
18. Learn to walk in heels.
19. Consider ordering a custom audio of feminine affirmations to begin and end your day with.
20. Transition to wearing only girly nightclothes to bed.
The Sky Is The Limit!
There’s no limit to what you can try and do. Some of you have tackled many things on the list above but some of you are just starting out. For those of you seasoned cross dressers, that only means that your goals should be ‘next level’ and I hope you share them with me! Let me know what you’re going to shoot for in 2018!
I’ve done most of what you listed except going out to bar which I won’t because of safety factor and I hate going to bars as it’s nothing but trouble and dangerous especially at night when your going by yourself which I don’t/won’t ever do. Calling you yes!!! I should do that. I’ve confessed to my masseuse about my dressing and she’s had me try on dresses/measured/fitted me in bra/put makeup lipstick on me as well myself going out for makeover/getting bra fitting/buying women’s clothes. Never tried on dresses though (masseuse has me on budget/controlling my spending and said I have enough women’s clothes/we may still do this later in year) I do wear bra/slip/panties/perfume/lotion to bed every night along with breast forms(d cup) filling out my bra. I’ve started wearing bra/women’s clothes out on public as I go Friday’s to see masseuse/wear women’s ankle boots/knee high boots. though I’ve never used dildo I’ve heard once you do you will want more, I’d love to try this but afraid it would hurt to much. She told me I need to accept who I am and become with not worrying/caring what others think. I agreed with her and plan on doing more of this in the upcoming year and beyond as I’m her cream puff girl who has me wrapped around her finger.
It sounds like there are still some things for you to try, Petey. As far as going to bars, just go with a friend that knows you’re a creampuff. How about the woman that’s training you? And the dildo….please! Just because you may like it and want to do it again is no reason to not try it. Buy a beginner’s buttplug, Petey! That’s an order! LOL
I’ve gone out with her to bars before. We went for appetizers/drink where I was dressed up. I had leggings/knee high boots/perfume on with women’s pink turtleneck sweater on with panties/bra underneath and it was a thrill!!! No one noticed as it was just the 2 of us. It was a thrill going out dressed with her. I do need to try dildo I do!! I’ll need lots of lube and I think if I get dressed up it will set the tone!! With lipstick on my lips I’ll need to use my dsl’s on it along with going anal. Yes to the beginners but plug also. It will make me walk in girly way. As I said before mistress at my age the ship sailed on finding regular girlfriend as I am a cream puff who has no intention of purging. I’ve spent to much money and the urge will get worse by throwing away my women’s clothes. Women training me is controlling my spending and said I have enough women’s clothes. 2018 is year where I’m going to do what I like and not take any crap from my co workers/family. This has gone on way to long and it’s stops now!!! It was me that asked women who’s training me to do this and she accepted this as we have gone out together with me dressed and I didn’t care as I was with her and under her control by holding her purse while she was shopping and I didn’t mind one bit!!! I’m glad she had me doing this!!!
It sounds like you’re going to make it a great year, Petey!