Last week, I promised a little fun and I meant it! For weeks, you’ve heard me talk about your inner self. By this, I mean that you must build the home before you decorate it. The foundation is the most important part of any establishment that is meant to last, and your journey is no exception.
Buying your first bra….
Buying a bra is exciting! Not only is it an important part of my feminization instruction for you, shopping for a bra is a beautiful feeling from beginning to end. I realize that some of you may have already purchased your first bra and have already incorporated it into your lifestyle. If this is the case, feel free to visit any ladies store this week and shop for something new. But for those of you a little nervous about shopping for a bra in public, don’t be. The world has changed alot in the last 15-20 years, and attitudes have come a long way. Of course, assholes never go out of style and some people will refuse to open their mind and only judge you no matter what. But do not be discouraged if and when you encounter this while shopping. The majority of store clerks are prepared for shoppers from all walks of life, and will be more than happy to serve you. More often than not, you’ll encounter ‘undercover Mistresses’ like me that will be excited to help!
Getting a proper bra fitting….
Store clerks are your friends! Many sissies will not want to draw alot of attention to themselves, and they don’t have to. If your body language and demeanor lets the clerk know that you want to be discreet, it should be understood. Even if you go shopping with a guess of your measurements in mind, pleasepleaseplease ask for a fitting. Those ladies are skilled and able to help. Have them open a changing room for you to ensure privacy, and then you can get fitted properly. The entire process of buying a bra is a literally a celebration of femininity that some women take for granted. But it’s one thing that can make you feel absolutely beautiful and sexy. The clerk will be a ready resource once she pinpoints your exact size, so feel free to be open and honest with her about what you’re looking for.
It’s ok to let that frilly sissy or cross dresser shine through….
Once the measuring is out of the way, get ready to have a little fun with it. Try everything, girl! Pink, frilly, sexy, black, lacy, sweet, slutty…..lingerie knows no limits. Of course, you will need some matching panties. Don’t be afraid to look at them, as well. (I wonder how many of you lovely ladies I could catch wearing panties if I checked!) Try everything on in front of the full length mirror inside the changing room and take the time to really see yourself. Pay attention to the curve of your body and the way that lingerie hugs you. Make sure you are extra mindful of fit. Even though you might have heard ‘Beauty is pain’, you still need some comfort. If a bra digs into your skin or leaves painful marks on your body, either pick something else or adjust the size because just like clothes, not all sizes run true. You can buy sexy, pretty things that don’t hurt. And something that sits in your closet or drawer because you just can’t bear it is just wasted money, so trust the store clerk to help you the entire process. I strongly suggest making a few purchases to go home with and begin working into your wardrobe, even if it’s just something you wear to feel pretty in private. It’s one thing to admire something, it’s another thing entirely to own it. And you deserve it!
When you wear your new purchases later, remember the journey that you are on. You are changing and evolving! It is exciting and sometimes a little scary, but you are not alone. This week, I hope that you write me and tell me about your bra shopping experience. Next week, we’ll go even deeper. So meet me right back here!
