There’s something that keeps people everywhere having sex beyond procreation. Of course, the pleasure of orgasm is there. But even beyond the eventual, pleasurable end that masturbation provides, there’s contact. Feeling someone’s skin, expressing yourself….the ‘connection’ is what people crave. Even if someone is having sex and barely knowing the person and maybe they don’t even love them, being touched is beyond beautiful. You’re being recognized in the most intimate way. Someone sees you, and they enter more than your body. They’re in deeper than that.

Masturbation And Seducing Yourself

Anyone can just start rubbing themselves. But sometimes you are craving something more than an easy orgasm. You’ll know because after that quick cum, it will still feel a little hollow. Some sissies and cross dressers have partners that they still have a healthy sex life with, and I’m going to write something for them next week. I’m addressing those that are solo or married and still craving touch. There’s a general feeling that you need a partner for intimacy and seduction, and yeah, it’s definitely easier that way. But what happens if you don’t have anyone? What happens if there hasn’t been anyone for years or ever? You still need touch. You still need a connection, and instead of hardening and pulling away from that beauty, you may need to consider doing it for yourself.

Having sex with ‘you’ is very special whether you realize it or not, whether anyone has ever told you or not. Maybe you have had alot of partners, or maybe you’ve clammed up socially and avoid sex beyond fantasy. You still deserve the intimacy. Masturbation has health benefits, both physical and mental. So maybe it’s as simple as putting on some music or drawing a bath. Maybe you smooth lotion all over, pour a glass of wine and fantasize. No porn…..don’t you dare cheapen it. There’s a place for porn and a purpose, too. But self-intimacy is on another level, and it’s almost spiritual. It doesn’t matter if you’ve run your fingertips up and down your thigh a million times. Your thigh is nothing new, but in a different mindset, the feeling can be new.

You may not have a partner to do sexy things with, but you deserve the connection all the same. Ignore any thought that you might look silly while you’re seducing yourself, or that you’re silly for even doing it. Masturbation May is just the beginning. Going forward, you can experience very special moments with yourself, with toys, in music, in a sexual and meditative state. Whether it’s until you’re ready for another partner, or forever because you just want it that way, self-intimacy and self-body worship is real. You deserve it this month and every month. It’s there for the taking.