Have you heard of Masturbation May? We often hear about certain months of the year that are dedicated to health, literacy, history or certain causes. So why not an entire month to celebrate something equally important…..your sexual pleasure!

Masturbation is free, fun and safe….

You don’t have to buy fancy toys to have a good time. This is not to say that there aren’t tons to choose from. If you want to venture into the world of toys, there are plenty of websites that will ship discreetly and have regular sales and discounts. This may help when you order something fun that looks like a medieval torture device but promises a rollicking good time. Those toys are the best, but you may not be able to explain them to stuffy toy purists that really just need a stiff one to shut them up.

But maybe you don’t have a toy handy and just want to get it on. Just using your hand can be a fabulous way to bring yourself to climax again and again without any outside help. Experiment with temperature and speed. You can cum anywhere if you have a little time to yourself!

Other ways to celebrate Masturbation May?

*Buy a handheld shower head and get in that tub!

*Get to know your produce aisle or other foods in a new way. Experiment with textures and temperature. Don’t just stop at whipped cream! I have a friend that has gotten quite intimate with cucumbers. Maybe try the non-stalk end of a zucchini. Just make sure they are smooth and clean, and that you are being safe. And don’t rule out a soft, fleshy cantaloupe or certain squash. There’s a reason why those American Pie movies did so well…..food can be fun! That’s how it all started!

*Look through your house and experiment with different fabrics. Many men love the feel of nylon on their cock.  Cashmere is amazing, and can be quite erotic.

*Have a partner blindfold you with an array of sexy toys nearby. Not knowing what they will do you (or what you will do to them) can be exhilarating!

*Experiment with sex in between your breasts, foot jobs, warm oil and/or tantra while masturbating each other.

Above all, relax, have fun and remember not to let insecurities stand in the way of having a good time. The sexiest thing about masturbation is who you are when you allow yourself to be open, vulnerable and unafraid to give and take. You owe it to yourself to soak up every second of Masturbation May!