I do alot of shopping and I have a bladder the size of a walnut. This means I spend a fair amount of time in the ladies room no matter where I am. I wanted to pass on something that recently happened. There was a break in Portland’s snowy weather, so of course I went shopping! I had cabin fever and I needed a little normalcy! I had no idea what the day would bring, but when it occurred, I wasn’t your feminization Mistress, I was just Amber. But Amber is a friend to all sissies, cross dressers, transgenders and those in transition, and Amber was not pleased.
Mistress Out Shopping
So there I was, thumbing through the sales racks when I realized that nature was calling. I left the shopping area and made a beeline for the ladies lounge. I walked in, grabbed a stall and got myself situated. I heard the restroom door again and a few others walked in. However, only one of them took a stall (right next to mine.) The other person walked out, I was pretty sure. I wasn’t paying attention. But I was finished, so I left my stall and was washing my hands when I heard a pounding and a man’s loud voice.
Now, I’ve been in the bathroom when a clerk wanted to come in and clean, but they have to wait until everyone is out. I called out from the sink ‘There are ladies in here, hold on please!’
But the guy pounding on the other side of the main door said ‘There’s a man in this bathroom and he needs to leave!’ I was stunned.
I had not seen the person that was still in the stall and I was not sure if they were en femme or not. But that hardly mattered.
‘He means me’, said a soft voice coming from the closed stall. Then the man outside pounded again.
‘Don’t even worry about it’, I replied back to the timid voice in the stall.
‘There are only ladies in here, sir. Everything is fine,’ I called to the man outside.
‘We’ve had a complaint and we’re following up’, the man called through the door. ‘You can go, sir,’ I said to him, louder now.
‘There are no issues in here.’
He didn’t pound again and there was no more speaking back and forth. The person in the closed stall made no sound.
‘You take all the time you need’, I said. ‘We’ll walk out together.’
And I took the phone from my purse, texted a friend and hung out for a few minutes. Other people walked in, and I just waited.
We walked out together, just as I said we would. There was no one was waiting for us when did. And I was thinking of all the beautiful readers and callers that read Amber Academy, all the sissies, cross dressers and others on a journey. I was reminded how happy I am to write for you.
Final Thought
Many people are on a feminization journey, and society isn’t always accepting of that. Now is the time to help when you can and be the best example of a loving person that you can be. You may not know the person you help, but they are someone’s loved one and someone’s friend. There’s no excuse for hate, shaming, judgement or witch hunts but there are many people that are targets for this.
We may not be able to stop it, but it doesn’t mean that others have to go through things alone.
We are all worthy of a safe place where we can be ourselves.
That’s great how you helped him out in bathroom! Did you & him end going shopping along with him buying dresses/makeup/bras/lipsticks/
perfume? I just came out toy massuse 2 weeks ago and she was so supportive of this. Every Friday when I go to massages I wear bra/panties/women’s sweater/women’s slacks/ankle/knee high boots with coach purse she had me buy. 2 weeks ago she saw bra I had and said she had same one but in black color as I had maroon bra. After massage she said she wanted to measure and fit me in bra. It was so hot that she did this and such a thrill. She told me to wear it all weekend which I did. I went to dinner/groceries wearing it and no one noticed. Last Friday her husband came to shop and scared the s–t out of us. She said he didn’t notice or say anything and if he did she would’ve stuck up for me. Yesterday she said she has 2 more purses (Michael kor shoulder strap one in pink the other on brown cream color) for me along with lipsticks to try on and keep. Also next Friday we are going to do early massage them go out of town where she will take me shopping for bras/women’s slacks/tops/lipsticks/makeup/perfume. She also said she wants me to get makeup put on me. With the other 2 girls I know from tennis, they ssidvtheubwsnt to make me more accountable they both have started to take control as well. It safe to say that I’m in real relationship and she has her nails dug into me with no intention of letting me go. I’m really her cream puff purse sissy boy.
We did not shop together, no. We left the restroom and went our separate ways. I’m just glad I was there.
Way to go Ms Amber and thank you for sharing this experience.
You’re very welcome. Things like this are bound to happen more and more because the way the world is going…..we all need to stick together.
That very classy and great thing you did for him!!????
I’m just glad that I could be there, actually!
You are amazing and I like to think I would have done the same….You have made a difference in that persons life on their feminization journey one they probably would have ever imagined they would get from a stranger….thank you for being so amazing the world is better because you are in it
Thank you, Miss Constance….you’re a bright, shining star for many people that adore you!