While no one is a stranger to the twists and turns on the journey of life, it is important to remember that the road to feminization can be just as varied, with ebbs and flows of it’s own. The truth is, women are complicated creatures for real, and not just to back up all those stereotypes! Women can be catty, selfish, insecure, dramatic, and rife with issues and baggage. Of course, women can also be warm, loving, charismatic, elegant and mesmerizing. But it’s a choice, and a daily one at that. Hell, sometimes it’s moment by moment. And as a bonafide member of the female race, I welcome any converts that can add to the landscape while keeping their crap together. This is the goal.

My goals as a Feminization Mistress….

I am not interested in helping people play dress-up, or encouraging men that want to ‘try something new’ to become feminine. I am sometimes approached by those that are bored of the same old fantasies, and wonder if ‘pretending to be a woman’ would be fun. I am not in that business. I am in the business of reaching those men that have always felt a little different and/or that may not necessarily feel as manly as their male counterparts. You are all snowflakes, and I love it. Some of you are true sissies in stockings, some of you are masculine to the outside world but crossdressers at home. Some of you are gay, bisexual or asexual. You are married or non-married, hidden and private or en femme as much as possible. I am not talking just to gay men or just to sissies or just to crossdressers. I am talking to anyone that is interested in changing from the inside out. I have not jumped directly to cosmetics and fashion, but have been more interested in your inner parts first. Like I told someone recently, putting make-up on doesn’t make you a woman any more than applying house paint makes you a house. It is about the transformation on the inside. Everything else is just decoration.

Turning that eagerness into homework for Mistress….

Just like learning a new language takes time, your efforts will, too. My goal is not to just give assignments, but really have you think about what you’re doing and how it feels inside to change. And of course, this is not a race. You have already won by choosing to step into the capable hands of a Mistress, but you compete against no one. In life, you will hear about the journey and not the destination and it is the same here. Next week, we will talk about some essential feminine shopping for those of you that have never done so. If you’re already familiar with undergarments, it will be a chance to poke around in a boutique or mall store….like ladies need a reason to shop, ever!

Thank you for referencing this blog when you call me. Are you ready for some fun next week?