I talked to Sissy Slut Samantha recently and when I decided to write about it, I almost made it a Call Confessions post. But we don’t have to think too hard about what happened at the porn theater, do we? Let there be no doubt that Samantha loves whoring at the theater! Actually, the more she talked about the sexy things she did, I just kept coming back to what she said she was wearing at the time: a pink cami, pink panties and heels. When I asked her how she felt in that naughty ensemble, she said she felt like a slut. I expected that. I could hear how how turned on she was as she recalled the story. And I’m sure that had she coasted in there wearing something that did not fit the tone or her mood, her whole filthy visit might have been ‘off’ even if she was horny as hell and willing to prove it. That’s because dressing up (or in Samantha’s case, dressing down), is important. She felt like a million bucks in her slutty outfit, and it ‘powered’ her.
Dressing Is Only Half Of It
Now, I’ve encouraged you to dress up for yourself, and to dress for the world if you want to. There’s a song many of us have heard of, and the lyrics say ‘You’re never fully dressed without a smile’. Well, that’s certainly a musical way of being positive, but it’s not completely correct. You can be wearing something you hate and be grinning like a loon, but it won’t make you happy. ‘Clothes make the man’ is another phrase…..and that sentiment might be closer? But there’s still something missing. It’s a combination of clothes and attitude. Get it wrong and it can ruin your day. Find the sweet spot, and you can move mountains.
Now, what does this have to do with you being a sissy? Everything. You’re already drawn to the ‘feminine’. Your love affair with lovely things, with soft and pretty….that’s real. Your panties and stockings, your bras and lace and silk? Those things feed the soul. There’s almost a ‘healing’ that occurs for some of you when you’re dressed. Like no matter what has happened that day or that week, just being dressed is like a warm wave of calm. Even if you’re a secret sissy, it’s the same. The way you’re dressed makes you feel. The way you feel makes you live.
Your feminine clothes are more than just items on a hanger or a pretty fold in a drawer. And having them and wearing them can make you happier and better…..not because of how much they cost you or the store in which you purchased them, but because of who you allow yourself to be when you’re dressed. Past all of your hurdles and hurts, you are here now and maybe it’s not all peaches. But if you know who you are, you’ve solved the largest puzzle of them all. Let being dressed power you. Your confidence will fuel you. And when you’re happy, you’ll smile for real every time.
I love wearing women’s clothes/dresses/tops/panties/slips/
halter tops/bottoms/bras/heels/boots. Also adding women’s lotions/mist/perfumes/lipsticks as well. I look and feel so much better. The women’s clothes fit and feel way better then my guy clothes. I’ve gained weight which I must lose as I got careless and have to go in strict fast as I’m thinking lots of veggies’/fruits/all with lots and lots of bone broth. Now that I have women into dressing we are going on shopping trip next week where she wants me dressed in women’s clothes/bra/panty/knee high boots/along with pink shoulder strap purse and pink women’s turtleneck sweater/wraparound scarf. She wants me to buy burgendy/red lipsticks/Ralph Lauren midnight passion/passion perfumes/bath & body lotions/ along with buying halter tops/slacks and to have me get makeover. I’m excited but nervous as I know I’ll be hard and hope she doesn’t notice my hardon nor do I want to cum as I’ll need to bring extra panties/panty liners. The negative is she’s married???? but she told me she’s looking forward to this/having fun with me and said she wants to see me happy.
Gaining weight can really put a damper on your self esteem. I have a girlfriend that’s constantly trying every fad diet there is. Don’t take anything to extremes, though. NO strict fasts….make sure you’re making healthy changes and cutting out the garbage. Cut the sugar, bread and cheese. I gave up dairy altogether and I love what it did for me. No crash diets, Petey.
This is so true. While the sissy/effeminate feelings are always there even wearing a pair of panties amplifies those feelings. Add a bra, skirt, blouse, make up and wig and you become a completely different person.
You do, Stephanie! It’s truly a reinvention, and it makes you feel like a trillion dollars!
So true, Mistress Amber. An added factor is “completeness”. Being completely dressed as a feminine slut is also part of that overwhelming excitement that sweeps me into acting out my kinky whoredom. When I get to wear matching cami, garter belt, hose, panties (over the garter belt for easy removal), and heels, like I did during the night in question, it drives me crazy and makes me the most enthusiastic cock slut you’ve ever seen.
And don’t forget the excitement of shopping for those naughty items. Talk about tune-up time ….!
Shopping is foreplay! The anticipation, the planning…..really gets your hear racing!
Women’s clothing can become so much more than just something to keep you from getting arrested for indecent exposure when you’re forbidden to have it. I suspect when you’re a sissy, allowing yourself to have what you want more than anything is symbolic of honoring who you are inside, especially if you’re used to keeping all of that hidden.
Exactly, Miss Piper….it’s all about who you’re allowing yourself to BE. It’s freeing.
Ms Amber- I love hearing a caller describe what they are wearing- the color, texture, the way an article of clothing fits, all the details. It seems as if some colors are nearly universally suited to a certain mood or attitude. Hot pink gives off a different vibe than a soft pastel pink, and black lingerie sets such a different mood than pure white! If you have always connected a color to a mood, you tend to pull that color out of your closet when you are dressing, and it’s like a self-fulfilling prophecy/outfit. Your mood matches your outfit, and your outfit conveys your mood. Of course, you explain it so clearly here, the power and influence your clothing choices have over your attitude,it really helps the new sissy to understand how important her shopping choices are!
Thank you for saying so, Miss Stephanie. You’re so right.