Have you ever stopped to wonder why the ‘selfie craze’ is still going strong? The Internet is full of selfies. Hit up most any female Facebook or Insta, and you’re probably going to find alot of pics of the same shot. The chick in the pic took a little time to beautify while dressing up, got in her correct light on her good side and snapped a pic. That’s because once you find that angle and the right light, the camera loves you. Selfies are fun because you feel cute, you look good and you want people to see. It’s hard not to get a little snap-happy! I even wrote a blog about taking selfies. There’s something about commemorating the feeling, recording the moment. When you look back to those pics, you’ll remember feeling sexy. You’ll want it again.
Dressing Up For Yourself
Maybe you’re not a Social Sarah or a Nightlife Nina. That’s ok. Many of you get en femme and keep it very private. But I’ve talked to a great many of you and some of you don’t take nearly enough time to revel in your femininity or really enjoy yourself while dressing up. And very few of you take pics. I mention the word ‘selfie’, and so many of you laugh uncomfortably, like I must be joking. But I’m not.
I get the feeling that most of you don’t know why you should take pics, like it’s silly or stupid to want to. Why? You are two people, and you can’t shake that. Your softer side is something to be celebrated, even if it’s a quiet party. It’s not like you have to hide a bunch of Polaroids. You’ve got a cell. Keep them secret, keep them for yourself. Feel like branching out? Get yourself a Facebook, find some like minded people, join some online cross dresser communities if you haven’t already and enjoy it!
You don’t have to hit up the clubs or hide in the next town over. Set aside some time to be alone, whether it be several hours or a whole day. Some of you may even have longer. Lay a sexy outfit on the bed. It can be something that you already own or even a new lovely purchase. Take a bubble bath or a sensuous shower, relax with a little aromatherapy, smooth lotion on your soft skin afterward and take a little time dressing up for yourself. Pour a glass of wine, turn on some music, do a little make-up and forget the stress of the week. Feel your body in your garments, the way you move in them, the sound they make when you do. And then find your right light, your right angle and take a few pics with your phone. Upload them somewhere secret or don’t. Spend the evening making love to yourself, call your favorite Mistress, whatever you feel. All that matters is that you bring up those pics from time to time, that you see them and feel beautiful, because you deserve to.
When you look back to those pics, you’ll remember feeling sexy. You’ll want it again. Take it.
I do love dressing up when I get home! Now that I have breast forms I wear them every night as they filled out my bra and I wear women’s top/slacks/women’s boots and they really stand out! I really do have d cups and I look better in women’s clothes! Just the fabric. Its so soft and comfortable. The only thing is I have a muffin top and I need to get rid of that! Ms Violet said corset training but won’t that give me girlish hour glass figure? It’s just that wearing the breasts/women’s clothes I get hard and I get off????????I soo want to find women into this or at very least women’s fashion. I’m going to wear my women’s pants to my massage and hope she notices then I will come out of closet and tell her I like women’s clothes/boots/fashion. Just scared what her reaction will be????????????
It’s funny how many sissies think they are doing things in secret, and believe that finally telling friends and family the ‘big news’ will be a bombshell. News Flash: Be prepared for friends, family and co-workers to already know or suspect. If anything, you are confirming what they already figured out. Just because you are not dressing like a female doesn’t mean that your mannerisms, reactions and responses are not female. Oh, and by the way. If you are paying someone for goods and services (like your masseuse), you should be able to wear whatever you like as long as it is not inappropriate. Technically, your masseuse should not say anything. If she is rude, judgemental or demeaning, you have a right as a consumer to seek services elsewhere. Period.
My masseuse is great!! She’s worth every dollar. We clicked on our very first meeting have had deep conversations about life. She had double masectomy and is currently recovering again going next week to start up massages after month recovery. Her health/recovery is more important. I’m doing 3 massages a week and it keeps me healthy and injury free! There are much worse ways to spend money. This is a lifelong investment in staying healthy for a long long long time! If family don’t like it then tough! Asi said coworkers/guys won’t notice if I’m wearing women’s slacks. They are more concerned with other things like work/talking sports in which I’ve lost interest in. I’m for certain that the mistresses won’t let me go back to hanging with the guys drinking beer/eating pizza getting fat with guys watch the game. I’m fine with that. It’s much better that all of you have have dressed/turned and kept me as a feminized cream puff girl.
Well, it’s your destiny to be a feminized cream puff girl!