It’s the last Wednesday of the month and we’re on the cusp of a new year. What a year it’s been! So much fashion, feminization and frilly girly things, so much advice and make-up and fun just being in Amber Academy! Yes, next week will begin a new series, and I haven’t told ANYONE what my plans are, so you’ll need to stay tuned for that. But if you’re anything like me, this month has been swamped. Seriously, since the day after Thanksgiving, it’s like I’ve been spinning like a top. I’ve been spreading myself too thin, saying ‘Yes’ to too much, struggling to keep my sleep schedule intact, trying not to eat alllll the delicious garbage food, etc. And I thought that this would be the perfect time to tell all of you something that I do at the middle and end of every year.

Help For Your Feminization Journey

In light of all the resolutions that folks are making, maybe you can incorporate something I do every year and customize it to your feminization journey and being a more fabulous you. It’s not magic, but it works. I actually set goals and check in with myself about twice a year. Like, write things down and go back and see how I did. I monitor progress. It sounds simple, but it’s serious and it keeps me on track.

But because this is Amber Academy, this isn’t about you setting goals for general things like sleeping more or reading more books or watching less crap on tv. I mean, those are great goals. But I want to stretch you in a different way. Your feminized self is the name of the game, so your goals should be centered around that.

A new year usually stirs people to get excited about something and take a leap. Little leaps, big ones…..all that matters is that you jump.
Consider these goals:

1. Wearing panties or stockings every day
2. Buying your first bra.
3. Taking a trip to a real boutique when you’ve always done your girly shopping online before.
4. Reading every entry of Amber Academy, from my first entry to last. You can find every series here on my Vault page.
5. Anal plug training. This might be strictly for pleasure or for preparation of another big leap.
6. Finally moving your cocksucking urge or anal play curiosity from fantasy into reality.
7. Reading my posts ‘About Face Part I’ and ‘About Face Part II’ and then buying some make-up for yourself.
8. Telling your best friend or spouse about your cross dressing secret.
9. Exploring chastity.
10. Commit to not purging or never purging again.

Final Thoughts

Lots of people make resolutions, but it’s almost a joke to abandon them. If you’ve got your heart set on something, if you’ve been rolling something around in your head and you really want it, don’t waste time. Set some goals for yourself and share them with your favorite feminization Mistress, me!

Here’s to a new year of fresh opportunities, to abundant health and a self-evolving feminine metamorphosis that refines and completes us. Cheers!