Are you a painslut? This is for you! (Paraphrase follows:)

Painslut? Here’s My Honest Answer….

Question for Amber:

How far will you go where pain is concerned? I know LDW has rules but do you have personal limits in addition to that? Do you like hurting me? How do I get into the blog? If I do something crazy, am I in?

 

Answer from Amber:

I want to be completely clear about the blog because I have written about many people and it’s exciting for them to see it in print. It can also get addicting for some folks that want to try for an additional blog, especially when not all Mistresses write about callers, or they may not write regularly about them. During calls or Skype, there is no rule that weird, wild stuff will automatically be blogged about. I blog when I feel inspired or when I can see that you are truly enjoying your kink. I can tell when someone is doing something for the sheer purpose of trying to shock me. Don’t bother. Hurting yourself or making careless choices for the sake of a blog will automatically earn me calling you a dumbass and that’s it. I do not reward dumbasses.

Some of you truly enjoy pain. You live for the thrill, for the breath that catches in your chest because of the shock to your body. You crave the tingle and the sting, and I can see it. I watched a guy put his poor balls through complete hell last week and he was loving every minute of it. His methods would probably considered unnatural by the general, non femdom population but they were within LDW regulation and he never mentioned a blog once. He loved his session and I loved watching him in subspace. As far as whether I like hurting you, it’s not like that. I love giving you what you want. And if you love being in pain, I love it too.

Painslut LDW Limits

That being said, LDW’s rules and limits about pain are pretty much it for me. I don’t have additional rules just based on me. As far as pain is concerned, I’ll go as far as you can take it. Be genuinely you and you have my respect. When you show me what makes you throb, it’s a win win and it doesn’t get any better than that!