I recently took a call with a husband bored and home alone while his wife was on a ‘girls trip’ to New York. I prodded just a little and while she is with her girlfriends, sex was definitely in the table if the mood was to strike her. He explained to me that they have an ‘open relationship’ and his wife has taken full advantage over the years.

‘Open marriage‘, I repeated. ‘Hmmm…so when was the last time you had a date with someone that you met and liked?’
‘Oh…’, he replied. ‘Well, I never have. I don’t really do that. That’s something she does.’
‘I see…so you’re a cuck. Open marriage….you’re kidding yourself, you know. Your wife is just cuckolding you and that’s the truth.‘
Then I waited while he absorbed what I’d said. The silence made me laugh.

Face The Truth, Cuck!

It might be easier to tell yourself your marriage is open, but that’s just a more gentle way of lying to yourself. If you ventured out while your wife was out having fun and happened to meet a nice woman that you liked, could you just go to dinner with her? Could you tell your wife and have it be no big thing?

What if you wanted to hop into bed with that same woman you met? Would you get an ‘Atta, boy!’ or at least a ‘Have fun! Don’t forget your key!’ from your wife as you’re walking out the door? I don’t even have to know your wife to know it’s a big ‘Hell, no! You’re not going anywhere!’

Two Sets Of Rules

Your wife would likely be confused, suddenly quite upset and totally jealous if you met someone. Add to that irrational, escalating to hysterical….and soon it becomes snide, condescending and worse. Funny how a woman that’s been wrapping her legs around other men could suddenly remind you of your promises and vows to her! It seems very hypocritical for her to say ‘Hey, only I get to act like this! You’re supposed to stay here and be loyal, that’s what makes me the most comfortable.’ But that’s exactly what is.

So denial might be your deal, cuck…but I’m calling you out on your crap. The truth is, your wife is the village bicycle and there’s no way you’d ever get to have the same fun!

Whether You Like It Or Not….

You’ve been loyal this long because you love your wife. You wouldn’t dare dream of giving her an ultimatum because it might not work out in your favor. And there’s no way you want to upset the balance of the household, especially if she’s not a crazy bitch on wheels and making your life a living hell right now. Some of you actually get along pretty well with your hotwives. Even if you don’t, it’s better than being alone.

So, husband. Your role is clear and always has been. Pay bills, be loyal and stay put. Eat the creampies you’re given and accept that a tongue is all you bring to the table.

But no more lying to yourself. You’re a cuck, and we both know it!