This is a crazy day and age. Some of you really get off on the idea of random sucks with complete strangers. Hey, I get it and I write alot of blogs for that crowd. But more and more of you are expressing a very real worry of safety and health. Let’s face it. Some of the men that you play with just aren’t clean. Not to mention that appearances can be deceiving. Lots of you are married or have a girlfriend at home and of course you don’t want to bring any diseases back to them. So where does that leave you? Are you really supposed to shelve all of your cocksucking kinks and desires?
No, silly. You need a regular suck-n-fuck friend!

Suck-N-Fuck With Safety In Mind
Over the years, I have gotten to know many of you and sincerely care about your safety. That’s one of the reasons I wrote ‘Safety With Oral And Anal Sex‘ kinda forever ago. But it also disheartens me when I speak to many of you that have placed ‘finding a regular play mate’ right up there with ‘winning the lottery’. Instead you’re stuck in a rut of fantasy and still want more. Thanks to my help and encouragement, I have had a good amount of callers go on to make sexy and safe connections. More importantly, it’s an opportunity to play with the same person again. It WILL require you to come out of your hidey hole and take a chance. You may have to encounter a few frogs before you find a prince, and you’ll for sure find folks that puss out at the last minute even though you’ve been texting and everything seems like a ‘green light’.
Everyone is on a different journey and they may not be at your level. But if you’re serious about finding a regular suck-n-fuck pal so you both can be safe, he’s out there. He’s likely just as hesitant as you, but the longer you wait to find him (or them), the more time you’ll miss out on some red hot filthy fun. So call me up and let’s talk about next steps (or first steps) to get you a regular suck-n-fuck friend of your own!


Mistress Amber,
You’re not only an incredibly sexy woman and great at what you do but you’re also a great person. Gloryholes for me were a great start to learn to suck Cock back when I was curious and first learning but now I’ve grown out of them. Yes, the diseases and filth are scary but I’ve sort of grown out of them.
I’ve been looking for a regular guy but haven’t found one yet. You’re right you have to put yourself out there. Sure you’ll meet some duds. I’ve met my fair share of them. But you have to keep trying. I’m going to keep trying until I find mine.
That’s what you have to do…..just keep trying. You’ve got a great attitude about it. And thanks for your sweet compliments!
It’s a work in progress……dreaming of a hard cock Rollin me onto my stomach and pumping me for His pleasure…..yes a work in progress
Sounds like more sexy stuf we need to talk about next session. Oh. and I wrote this blog with you in mind, just so you know!
Ha ! Kinda figured – you would think finding a discreet smart normal suck fuck buddy would be easy – it’s not.
There is always the drama component. …lol…people.love drama
Looking forward to chatting about it… 🙂
Me too, slut!
Mistress Amber,
What a great post. A fantastic reason to connect with you! You’ll help keep those cock hungry sluts under control and guide them through a safe and sane journey! I know how some can get, throwing caution to the wind when that flag is flying high on their penis pole. Damned be the consequences! I know I’m slowly shaking my head when I hear such a confession! Wise is the cocksucker who connects with you, to keep them safe and sane while you aid them towards their suck and fuck playmate!
Exactly, Miss Erika! Thanks for stopping by!
Miss Amber, thank you for writing this post. Because you can never be too safe and no one wants to bring anything bad home to their partners. It may take some work finding a playmate but well worth the investment in time and effort.
I couldn’t agree more, Miss Cindy!
good morning miss amber-
would you be able to advise about if it might be safe to send dick pics to guys you meet online. I think so many are really just collectors, but I DO luv to send them anyway.
Not smart I bet. Looking forward to your reply and any others.
thanks. Dani
Honestly, I think that if you’ve reached the point where you’re messaging someone back and forth and you really want to send a dick pick, just don’t include any with your face! Need to stay vague….
Yup
Oh Mistress Amber
You are so right on with safety and trying to find a steady suck and fuck sissy friend. I have 2 prospects for this right now and one is a nurse! I Think of what his approach with me might be!????
Hugs
Sissy Ashley
It has been fun to connect with you recently….please keep me posted about that coffee date!
Stranger Danger was my motto when i went out out.Even a friend pf a friend was seriously troublesome one evening.The risky business of crossdressing and cock sucking.Stay with like minded folks .This even applies to many Christians all over the world who are also persecuted.
Good advice, although I’m not sure how the last bit of that is connected.
The connection is more so in foreign countries .Where both trans gender people are being harmed and also Christians .
I am really not seeing any connection with any part of this blog and trans or Christian persecution. I am not denying that such persecution exists, but the subject of this blog has nothing to do with it. They are separate issues.
The common thread is persecution.And we should stand united against all forms of it
Any Happy Easter
You, too.