Ah, porn. I know I  love it. But what’s great about it? Well, porn can be both stimulating and relaxing, depending on your mood. Porn comes in many flavors and genres, and it can inspire and arouse you. Not only can you feel deliciously naughty while viewing it, porn can be a sexy part of foreplay, and something that you and your partner enjoy together.

How do I get my girlfriend or wife to watch porn with me?

Not all partners want to watch porn, so you’re going to have to assess the situation. If your wife is prudish, religious, closed off or uninterested in sex, you’re going to have an uphill battle. Don’t expect anything new to be easy. You’ve probably already discovered that she’s not just going to drop everything and try anal sex just because you’ve announced that you want it. Porn may be an equally large step. Depending on your situation, you may have to lay some non-sexual foundation with her before you can build. When a partner is ‘vanilla’, any deviation from the sexual ‘norm’ you share will suddenly be very tricky territory. You don’t want her to shut down, get defensive or grow insecure. The idea is to appeal to her interest in mutual pleasure, and attempt to stoke that sexual fire. If you come at her from more of a “This could be fun, let’s try it” stance instead of a “I’m bored, you’re boring and you better change” stance, you have a greater chance at getting the results you want. Of course, this is no guarantee and you may have a partner that’s just completely turned off by the idea. This is something you may just have to accept as she might not give an inch. Thankfully, I am in the fantasy business and would love to talk about yours. Remember, the human mind is the greatest sex organ you have!

Porn is the gateway to fetish, toys and fun!

If your partner has agreed to watch porn, congratulations. Porn can be very hot, but some of it can be revolting to some women, so be sensitive. Listen to what she wants and start slow. Ask her what she’s into, and what she’d be willing to try. Do not bombard her or push anything. Of course, you’re interests will automatically come out, but be receptive to what she’s saying, too. Watching porn together might automatically open up discussions about new toys or practices to try. Seeing a little bondage onscreen might just make her curious. Wanting to get her to consider anal play? Don’t push for the penis. Start with something less intimidating, like beads, or maybe a sexy vibe. And who says all the toys are for her? Branch out a bit and be willing to put the control in her hands, too. Don’t pass up strap-on play just yet. If you have never pleasured your prostate, you’re missing out! Discovering new things together can be insanely erotic, and who knows? Through the viewing of porn, other interests may surface. Have cock curiosity? Wondering about a swinging lifestyle? Aching to be a cuckold? It all starts with small steps. And for the truly adventurous, call me up and let me call the shots with both of you live. I’ll tell you just where to lick and how to ride. Maybe what both of you need is a Mistress to hold the reins!

It’s not hard to get a man to be kinky, but women often need a bit more convincing. Beginning with the right approach, keeping your ears open and being ready for an an adventure together is key. Hope we get to talk soon!