Foreplay and sex is definitely an activity that relies heavily on your senses. Whether it’s feeling hot and cold, different textures on your skin, smelling sensual oils, hearing sounds or seeing sexual things that arouse us, we need our senses. But do we need all of them, all of the time? Sensory deprivation is a tool we can use to enhance our experience, and it’s sexy fun for both parties.
What would happen if you took one of your senses away? It would heighten the sensitivity of all the others, of course! You would become hyper-aware of everything that happened in the absence of that one sense. Using a blindfold would prick up your ears, for example. What would happen? It would make all skin sensations extra exciting.
A little bisexual play never hurt anyone!
Once while experimenting with my friend Carrie, I had her strip naked and lay on my bed. I blindfolded her, yes. But I didn’t want to just take one thing away. Domination makes me wet, and I wanted more than that. So I also had her wear a set of over-the-ear headphones that played very calming, sensual music. I then tied her legs to the bed and her wrists over her head. She felt vulnerable in bondage, and I could have not have been more excited.
I took great pleasure in stroking her, with my fingertips, with a feather, with ice. I danced around from her neck to her inner thigh, from the sole of her foot to her breast. She didn’t know where I would touch her, or with what, so she would jolt every time she felt something, and then settle into it. Her whimpering and panting drove me wild! Eventually, I had one hand on her breast, and the other in her warm pussy, growing warmer by the moment. I would massage and caress until her breathing became hungry and ragged, and then transition my fingertips to other locations, teasing her and not allowing her to cum.
Because she could not hear anything but music, she didn’t even realize that I quietly let her boyfriend Trevor in the room to play. The moment she felt more than just my hands on her, she gave a little squeal and dug her body into my bed. Someone else might have reacted differently to feeling more than just me there, but she trusted me. Trevor stayed fully clothed, because this wasn’t about him. It was all about Carrie, and providing the most delectable, luxurious time I could for her. You should have seen her cum. I had teased her like mad, but finally allowed her to release. She was helpless and she moaned like a whore. Carrie jerked and squirted as I expected she would, and her aftershocks made my nipples ache. It was one of the sexiest things I have ever done, and I didn’t even cum until after they left!
Blog-to-bedroom play for you and a partner
Telling you this story is hot for me, but will make it even hotter is if you try it for yourself. Get a partner and let them touch you. You don’t have to wear headphones and you don’t have to be tied up if you don’t like that. But try a blindfold just to get the gist of what I’m saying. Be on both sides of the blindfold and note the contrast, the power exchange. Even if your partner is vanilla and conservative, this is sexy fun for both of you that’s not too ‘out there’.
And then call me. Tell me your story. I mean it….it might just make me cum.
