Men call me all the time, wishing for more. They ache for it. Your lovely wife or girlfriend is a fixture in your life, and a much appreciated one for what she contributes. She’s likely been with you for quite awhile, seen you through hard times and is a constant when life gets crazy. But at the end of the day, she’s probably changed alot from your dating days and the beginning of your relationship. That fun-loving girl that liked to be wild now works herself to the bone either outside the home or to take care of a family. She’s busy balancing everything and juggling household things. And you’d probably like to push that leftover pot roast she just gave you on the floor while you clear the table to make room for her naked ass. Because even though you’ve gotten a little soft around the middle, it’s been a long time since you’ve plowed that woman that used to drive you wild.

Mistress or mouse?

There are many wives and girlfriends out there that have yet to scratch the surface of what is truly possible in their relationships. Too often, there is a standard set of sexual things that they enjoy but it doesn’t leave alot of room for anything ‘too out there’. Men are ripe for change! They have so much potential that a woman may leave untapped, never knowing that their mild mannered husband would respond to a whole host of things like cuckoldry, chastity devices and strap-on play. Control is addictive, and if women would try something out of the box, they may find their dominance quite stimulating! Not only could it liven up a relationship that has begun to grow a bit stale, but the sexual benefits are endless.

Your mousy wife or girlfriend has likely limited herself, which limits everything you can have with her. Often, the subjects I just mentioned never even make it to an actual discussion, often because a man does not want to cause a problem with his partner, who might be weirded out or offended at the even idea of it all. She may be worried at how the man will view her if she expresses interest in ‘those things’. But there’s power in every woman if she will just let herself have it. For example, a woman that is carrying on a quiet affair (or is not opposed to one) could easily make her husband into a cuckold. Doing so may just enable him to be the cocksucker he’s aching to be deep down. He may not be physically ready for anal sex, but that opens the door to anal play and training beforehand, and a whole host of anal toys, plugs and strap-ons to get him ready for an actual cock. Some men thrive on humiliation and feeling like they are helpless against a real cock that can please their wife more than they could. The woman gets to see her husband in a subservient position, the man gets to suck cock and it makes for great sex for her. Everyone wins!

When black and white becomes gray and boundaries are blurred, the possibilities are endless. Swingers parties, gloryholes, porn and erotic literature, spontaneous threesomes with strangers and toys, toys toys! Women get addicted to power. Feeling like they are reclaiming their youth, awakening their libido, feeling beautiful and sexy….it all goes hand in hand. It’s all for her benefit that ends up benefiting you!

Not all ladies will make the jump….

For those of you that can breach the subject, I sincerely hope that there are new and exciting things ahead for you. But for those of you that cannot transition with your partner, your fantasies can be your saving grace. I am continually helping others to express themselves through fantasy, helping them to explore their own bodies even if they have to do it without their partner. I get so excited when a caller works a toy into his ass for the first time, lets me watch him eat his own cum on cam or anytime I can tease, deny, delay or restrict him from his own cock, even if it’s only temporarily. I love to have fun and help the men who call me to push their own boundaries and learn just how much pleasure there is when they do. It’s what keeps me loving what I do on the phone and keeps me blogging about all the things that excite me. Call me sometime, and you might be surprised how much fun we can have. But I must warn you, I’m addictive!