From time to time, I get a call from an unmarried man who has been getting alot of pressurre to get married. He’s been through school and has travelled alot but according to his folks, he has ‘pushed marriage off long enough’. He’s dated girls and thinks women are gorgeous, but it never goes anywhere because his heart’s not in it. He’s a cocksucker through and through, and I’ve written about him before in my blog ‘How To Know If You’re Supposed To Be A Cocksucker.’

So it’s time for a little real talk.

It’s Ok To Be A Cocksucker

This guy, (I’ll call him ‘David’) officially knows he’s a cocksucker. He’s not ‘questioning’ anymore. He took a trip to Miami and happily choked on cock until it was time to fly home. But ‘David’ is also a sissy who loves to dress up in pretty, girly things. No matter how many females he tries to date, it feels foreign. He must make himself to sleep with them and that’s even more awkward. He’s as hot for girls as a lactose intolerant person might be for a jug of 2% milk. David is growing increasingly depressed because he is literally being steered into a life he doesn’t want by people who don’t know the real ‘him’ and would never accept him if they did.

Is that you, too? Well, cut it out.

Cock Lover Seeks Woman? Bad Idea.

If you’re not into the opposite sex, don’t lie to an unsuspecting person and make them think you’re 100% into a real relationship. Don’t ruin someone’s life or waste your time and theirs because of your lie. That’s just not fair. If you love the idea of female companionship but you’re not heterosexual in the least, be upfront with a woman about who and what you really are. Maybe have an open relationship, maybe arrange to be a cuckold. This means that you’re going to need to look for a woman that is already kinky. Marrying a conservative, ‘vanilla’ woman and hoping that she changes is a recipe for resentment. Hoping that marriage changes you is ridiculous. Do you plan to give up food and air, as well?

Instead, consider dating websites that are off the beaten path, places where kink is celebrated and accepted. If you’re bi-sexual, marriage could actually be great if everyone is on the same page.  But you may have to wait a long time before you find a woman who wants the life you really want. You may never find her. However, using people is crappy, so don’t do it. Plain and simple.

The Take-Away

You can’t live life always doing what others want. So maybe all your friends are getting married, buying homes and looking all grown-up in the process. Maybe your folks won’t shut up about you ‘finding a nice girl’ and all the happily every after. This is not a contest! It’s better to be ‘Single And Happy You’ than ‘Resentful, Trapped And Married You’. If you want to suck cock, fucking do it. Keep it to yourself or shout it from the rooftops, but know that a marriage ceremony won’t change you any more than purging your pretty lingerie will take your cross dressing kink away.

It doesn’t matter if others accept you. It matters if you accept you. Life is too short for anything else.