Are you a secret submissive? So many of you would like to believe otherwise, that you just call us for fun but are much different in real life than who you ‘pretend’ to be in your session. Let’s hold you up to the light so that the truth is clear!
Relationship bitches and closet cuckolds, listen up!
From what I’ve found, the secret submissives that I have encountered also tend to be people pleasers. There’s not alot of ‘self’ in their agendas, but more of a need to make sure others are happy. Chances are, they’re a bitch in their current relationship or they’re now alone because their previous partner got tired of their non-decisive attitude that likely permeated every area of them. Are you a wishy-washy waffler? Do you lack the ability to stand up for yourself? Do you shy away from confrontation in all things and instead choose to back down, automatically giving the other person their way? You’re submissive. Are you in denial about being a wuss? You’d probably like to think that you’re a nice guy, or that you choose to pick your battles or that you don’t really mind putting your feelings aside. Wow, no. The denial is strong in this one! You’re a submissive.
Are you a cuckold? Come on, let’s be serious about this. If your wife or girlfriend constantly ‘works late’ and avoids coming home, if she’s distracted and sneaking texts or calls when she’s actually home, if she hides her phone from you and grows defensive if you ask her fact-finding questions…..you probably a cuckold. Many of you are scared to death about the answers you’d find if you really investigated, so you live in denial and can’t face the fact that she’s cheating. Chances are, your relationship has been lacking for some time and even if you asked her outright, you’d be too scared to start a fight where she might leave for good. Has your sex life taken a drastic downward turn? Odd are, she’s still having sex, just not with you. Does she work to look good when she goes out with ‘friends’ but then doesn’t work nearly as hard when it’s just you? What about when you go down on her, if she even lets you? Does she taste different? Does she come home wet and messy, seeming stretched and ‘juicy’? That woman knows exactly what she’s been doing, and believe me, she’s getting off on making you eat another man’s jizz. But she’d only let you/ask you/make you if she saw you as a cuckold bitch. No woman would treat an Alpha male like that. Those men are to be respected.
Ok, I’m submissive. What does that mean?
Being submissive means you have a very important job, and you’re destined for service! Submissives have important tasks, but there is pleasure in every bit of it! Sissy maids, party toys, coerced cocksuckers, humiliation laughingstocks, pain sluts, living dolls for feminization get-togethers, body worshippers, dirty bookstore cum whores…the list goes on and on. Imagine all of your sexy fetishes brought to light at the hands of a Mistress and being exposed both terrifies you and thrills you at the same time. Every task, every assignment, every command brings you to the edge of heart-pounding bliss. That’s what being submissive is all about.
The truth is clear now, and you know what you are, don’t you? You would have stopped reading by now, except my words resonate with you and you can’t deny it. Your pulse pounds with every word, does it not? Now bow, obey, breathe and be my slave and plaything.
It’s what you were meant for.
I’ve always been a secret submissive. It started in 1998 when I wore my roommates girl friend bra/lipstick. It then was a snowball effect into buying more & more bras/panties/dresses/leggings/yoga pants/heels/boots/lipstick/makeup/
Perfume/lotions to keep my skin girlish smelling and smooth. I always wanted to meet women into doing this to me but I was scared,shy and afraid. When I wear women’s clothingbi do become more soft,weak, submissive and feminine. If I did meet girl I would wear her clothes and hope she would catch me. I want to be a submissive feminine cream puff sissy doll for her.
Peter, you are a prime example of an individual that knows who you are and what you like. You can say it out loud, and for that reason, you are miles ahead of many others. I applaud your honesty.
Ms.Amber, Men have their secret submissive fantasies, so we may as well be a part of them! The more they exercise it, the more vivid it becomes, and the more unexpected and intense the submissive pleasure they experience.
That’s for sure, Miss Cindy! I love when men open their minds to possibility. Releasing control doesn’t have to be scary, and trying something for real when they have inner feelings that are already leading them is the most natural thing in the world.
It’s all true…..You are indeed insightful. Like many, I’ve come to realize that I’m a submissive and a cuckold. As difficult as it can be to accept, it is what I was meant for….We subbies can only hope for Mistresses who recognize and know how to put us in our place. Great post!
Thank you so much for reading! I am glad that you were able to see yourself in this.
Ms Amber ~ It amazes me how many have read this post and are probably for the first time connecting the dots. Like you said, it’s not that don’t know or couldn’t have known ~ they have just refused to really see the picture. But you are right again when you point out all the opportunities that open up once they do!! Another great post!
Thanks so much! Realizing you are submissive is definitely not a bad thing, either. There are definitely opportunities to have fun with it, which is what I hope my readers gathered from this.
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