Right before the month of July started, I wrote a blog about cock ownership and owning your orgasms. If you missed this blog about being my owned submissive this month, here it is: ‘I Want To Control Your Orgasms In July‘.
Cock Ownership, Straight From A Submissive
There’s a special reward in the surrender and obedience that comes from cock ownership. A big thanks to my very horny and very owned submissive that offered this essay for me to share. I have not changed a word.
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Imagine if you will that you’re on the phone with your favorite Mistress and she’s more excited than you can remember her ever being. Now most will probably wonder, what’s got her so excited and the answer for each Mistress will be very different. One thing however will universally excite every Mistress right away or at least this has been my experience.
CONTROL AND TRUST
CONTROL – Giving a Mistress, your Mistress, control will automatically excite her. Whether it’s control over your cock, what type of panties you’ll wear for her or even your choice of whether or not you get to orgasm, she’ll get excited. Consciously acknowledging that you need help controlling your sexual fetishes or even exploring them is arousing to a dominate woman. She thrives on the control and vulnerability that her submissive willingly gives up for their own betterment. None of this can be without:
TRUST – Now I’ve been talking and playing with the ladies of LDW for 7 1/2 years now and one thing I’ve learned is that only the ladies that you trust the most can really be given any amount of control. You must truly trust your Mistress in order to give into her control. You need to trust that she’ll take care of you in every way when it comes to the D/s of your relationship. Without that trust bad things happen. Communication breaks down, vulnerability erodes and the control disappears because your trust was violated or ignored. Or vice versa, you did this to your Mistress and she feels betrayed.
This is where I’m at with Mistress Amber, I trust wholeheartedly to have given her control over my orgasms. Our goal is to keep me as chaste as possible for the month of July at the least, maybe even longer. As of right now I’ve been teased and denied for 7 days, aiming for a 14 day stretch, the end of which we will decide if I get to orgasm. All in all though the fact that I trusted her enough to do this has excited Miss Amber more than I can recall in the few years that we’ve been playing together. I hope that the control and trust that I share with her continues to excite her because her excitement excites me.
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What About You?
Making you my owned submissive during the month of July is fun for both parties because I get all the control and you get all the fun! One= has a very specal stroking assignment that he enjoys during his television time, and other submissives are completing their own assignments, too. I’m incorporating their specific kinks and none of them are the same. One sub is using his owned time this month to explore anal and just found my recent Anal Challenge blog. Some of my subs are into Skype, some aren’t. There’s plans of chastity devices and other toys. I even have a few sissies that are squirming in their panties this month because I’m owning them, as well!
So what about you? What kind of cock ownership fun could we have? Will I ruin your orgasm? Tease you til you beg me? Maybe I’ll make you wait….or give you the best orgasm of your life!
I’ve started this with Ms Erika, it’s great awesome feeling being her submissive cream puff girl. She’s kept me in panties/bra along with my ongoing permanent feminization which I want!!! This is who I am and become!!! On real life scale I want this type of relationship to happen to me as well. One if my friends took pictures of me with her phone dressed up as a girl as I asked her to do this after she picked out dresses/blouses and women’s slacks for me. I wore my wigs/makeup/lipstick/panties/
dd bra with my dd breast forms. Let’s face it at my age most women are married with kids and I’m not as shop sailed on myself having gf/married. I’m not going to worry or care what others think anymore. She said this is who I am and become. Now she told me she’s going to sell women’s clothes and I told her if there’s something I like I can buy it directly through her. I want be owned like the sissy who blogged this. But with family spreading me thin always calling me I can’t do this as much as I want. They treat my like I’m 8 years old 🙁 want to have forced marriage to me. That’s worn me down and out the last 10-20 years 🙁 I’m going to tell my friend I want her to give me feminine arched eyebrows. She said not now as they would notice:( do you think anyone would? All I’m looking for is harmless dressing feminization fun. There doesn’t need to be sex buy with me being only single one in family they use this against me and that’s not right. With girls I play tennis with it’s not if I come out but when I come out. Hopefully they will accept this. If they are true friends they will.
That’s correct. Good luck!
What an awesome post! When a submissive has this type of trust and gives in to a mistress it makes calls much more fun. You will hear that excitement in our voices because we have freedom to create the best scenario for both of us. I have a sub very similar to the one who wrote this. We have an amazing time because he knows that I will not violate the terms of our play session and I know he will be compliant. This makes everything amazing!
It’s such a win win, I agree!