Any amount of time spent flipping through a fashion magazine in the summer months cements what we already know: summer is for women. Yes, men take their shirts off and those ‘Ken Doll’ images will never be absent from posters in the mall or the ads we see. But they clearly take a backseat to the dewy, sun-kissed skin of a woman, the popsticle-stained look of sexy, feminine lips, itty bitty bikinis, pretty toes in sand, beach-y hair…eh, you get it. Summer is a woman thing. But just because you don’t live that carefree beach life with bonfires at sunset doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy the season. Being a secret sissy is always an option, but forgoing summer as a sissy almost seems criminal to me. Why should you miss out?
Secret Sissy Ideas For Summer
I’ve been talking to alot of you ‘I-want-to-do-more-feminine-things-but-I-just-haven’t-taken-the-plunge’ callers lately. Here are some ideas to get you part-time sissies and cross dressers out of your rut and incorporating secret, girly things into your routine.
The first thing I will say is to remind you that being girly is work. Everything is effort. Those beauty treatments just don’t happen. If you want it, you have to make it happen. Some of these you may already be doing, and that’s great! Keep going!
Why don’t you try:
- Going to the beach alone with a trashy novel. Get off the grid. Don’t tell anyone you’re going. Drink something cold and relax.
- Wearing panties or swim bottoms under your boy clothes. You don’t have to be bold to be en femme.
- Painting your toenails. One of my favorite sissies recently expressed how classy French manicures are. I agree completely!
- Getting a massage. Go to a day spa, get a facial and a mani and relax.
- Treating yourself to a cold juice at one of those trendy places. Get outside! Natural Vitamin D all the way!
- Getting some beach-y smelling lotion, like coconut. Smooth it on after a shower.
- Wearing sexy nightclothes to bed. You sissies that live alone….there’s no excuse!
- Getting waxed and feeling gorgeous.
This is the time to make lemonade for late-night back porch sitting. It’s the time to grill and catch fireflies and sleep in hammocks. If you’re a sissy at heart but have to keep it quiet, that’s ok. But take it from your feminization Mistress: what you feed is what feeds you. Spend time in a girly mindset and you’ll feel more like yourself. Ignore or push away what you know to be the ‘true you’, and expect to feel disconnected. It’s time to have fun! Accept nothing less.
That’s right Ms. Amber, why should a sissy miss out summer fun? With so many varieties of swim skirt bottoms this summer, a sissy will look and feel fabulous while wearing them. Plus they all have built-in panties and can hide their small package very well. Follow the fun summer tips, girls!
Swim skirt bottoms are cute and those wraps the ladies wear on the beach! Lots of feminine options in summer!
Great suggestions, Ms. Amber. Maybe some of the sissies out there would like to try getting one part of their body waxed? I think that is a perfect way to feel more feminine this Summer.
Feeling soft and smooth is definitely on the girly upkeep list for summer!
I do get waxing every 4 weeks to stay soft & girlish smooth. Along with wearing my bra/d cup breast forms with my panties/slip to bed with my girlish lotions/mist. Massages are a must as I’m doing them 3x week for 2 hour hot stone with my masseuse/mistress. What’s your take on halter tops? Inhave a bunch on Boston proper that I want to buy along with sexy dresses. I think halter tops in summer time are great to wear.
I think halter tops are cute, actually!
I’m going to start buying them along with women’s tanks. Boston proper has these. The only thing holding me back is cost. I have over 10 items but it’s about $500. ????????
Yes, feminine clothes can definitely be expensive!