One of my favorite scenes of the movie ‘The Breakfast Club’ is where Molly Ringwald gives Ally Sheedy a girly make-over. Anyone who has seen that film sees the stark difference between the soft and stylish ‘Claire’ and the plain, under-feminine ‘Allison’. Post-makeover Allison is pretty hot and Claire has helped more than just her exterior. There’s a definite improvement in Allison’s self-esteem as well!

That’s what a girly make-over does. Yes, you look different. That’s immediately apparent. But the true magic lies in how you feel. The picture-perfect exterior is a beautiful bonus, but true feminization is still there even after you’ve washed your face.

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Looking inward while while we modify our girly mannerisms

In these past few weeks, we’ve talked about feminine walking and feminine talking. But as we modify our girly mannerisms, always be looking inward. It’s easy to get swept up in the fun of make-up and glamour to make our ‘finished product’ the best it can be, and there’s nothing wrong with fun. I love make-up, and I have drawers, cupboards and an extensive pink makeup ‘tackle box’ to prove it!

But as your feminization Mistress, I am always striving for balance between fashion and emotional growth. So swipe on that new lipstick and perfect that smoky eye, but when you step back to admire your work, renew your mind with positivity. Line those lips for a perfect pout, but breathe deeply, feeling free.

Girly, frilly glam is fabulous fun, so go out there and slay! But never forget the inner construction.
We’re building from the inside out!