An early draft of this blog entry was titled ‘Naughty Sluts Wanted‘, but my brain changed courses and instead of wrapping up this current series with a sexy call to cocksucking, I felt that something more thoughtful was needed. Yes, I want you to absorb all the info I’ve given you this series and then take the world by storm, getting what you need and enjoying the sheer sexuality of it. But underneath the action you take, your foundation is more important than anything you build on top of it. You must be proud to own your feminine self.
Your own brand of ‘feminine’
However you choose to define yourself as a sissy, cross dresser or transexual, you are no stranger to struggle. It’s fun to take fantasy into reality, (finally!) But beyond all the feminine guidance and good advice, it’s still your journey and you literally have to give yourself permission to be yourself. Many of you allow old thoughts, hurts and self-sabotaging ideas get in the way of things, create roadblocks of guilt and even stunt your growth. We all wrestle with things that threaten our happiness, but creating your own brand of ‘feminine’ and learning to love who you are is the most important thing. That’s all I’ve ever tried to do…..cultivate growth from the inside and then help you enjoy what you’ve built.
Purging: the cycle that does damage
Purging is more than just you throwing away everything you own because you feel bad about it, it’s a cycle that just chips away at you more and more. You were not meant to live in self-appointed shame because of who you were born to be. Throwing away your beautiful clothes and everything else that makes you feel spectacular is not going to cut the truth away. You’re going to find yourself right back to needing, fantasizing, loving what you love and then feeling bad for returning. You will lose precious time that could have been spent evolving and enjoying the feminine person that has always been in your DNA. No more emotional prison. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, live exactly how you need to, no apologies!
I have loved hearing your calls and reading your comments and emails about how this series has been fun and a total ‘green light’ to get sexy en femme. Making your fantasies happen for real is a big jump for many of you, just make sure you let yourself enjoy it. Feminine training is more than just fashion advice or girl talk. It’s also empowerment to own your life and be proud of yourself, leaving the past in the past. And who knows? ‘Naughty Sluts Wanted‘ may get it’s day. I guess we’ll see. In the meantine, get ready for a brand new series next week!
Yes even if you are cocksucking cross dressing sissy .
Most definitely if you’re a cocksucking cross dressing sissy!
Hardly any point in my life. Even my family says I was happier, when I was living full time. They all thought I should transition few years ago. It’s like I’m stuck n clueless as to why. I do allot for others and generally I find myself giving more of myself to others, than I do myself.
When my family comes to visit, sometimes my mom does my laundry as does she hand my bras and hose to folding my panties and clothes and putting them away. Which is really great strides in my lifetime. As when I did live fill time they actually disowned me haha, go figure right. So they’ve come a long way really. As had my mom seen me break down and cry on occasion as did she know how miserable I am. Sting other girls living their lives in everyday lives, so makes me regret myself. I get so lost in living.
But there have also been times in my life where my family has advised me as well I’d like to add. Sometimes I find myself giving to others, as a way to maybe replenish my soul or mind, as does that irritate them over the years. I’ve had a few charities over the years that irritate one of them immensely. Which I find myself questioning them on me wanting to live fill time again, as they don’t do stuff like giving back unless there’s something in it for them. So I’m Leary. Meanwhile I’m paying for it with misery
I have never been happy trying to please others, so I stopped and found out just how much happier I could be.
Life is too short to be unhappy. Always live for YOU.
I understand Amber. Years back my flight group got involved with hospice and we ask did something as a group for the patients, for which hospice was taking care of. I guess it kind of stuck with me even after turning in my pilot’s license. as did i move in the process. But we use to go yup their houses and they would have a list of things they wanted to get done with the house, before they had passed on, so we would all kick in a pot forth the effort, so that they I’m their minds, could maybe leave in better piece of mind, knowing that the ones for which they left behind, werent either fighting about the money or the house was left in good shape, so that the siblings or wife wouldn’t be left with the stress of taking care of this or that. As did we meet some really beautiful people in the process.
One of the people I’d met and was given a few months to live. Their grand daughter happened yup be one of the four bud light girls on the poster back inn the 90’s. And she was Transexual haha, which was really cool. Hag no idea right.
But when i left Columbus Ohio and moved away, i carried that thought too another place. As now i make some older people aren’t left behind by themselves. Out doesn’t take much of my time as it use to. I use yup have about 13 elderly people I’d help out here and there. Now I’m down to one person. As the rest have passed on sadly. But i use to buy their groceries or pick up their medications or pet food and bring it to their house to taking them yup the vets or doctors office. Even fixing things they needed at their house and if i couldn’t fix it, i’d find them a reputable contractor that wouldn’t take them yup the cleaners, so to speak. And when i wasn’t in town, due to working in L.A. California and living in Ohio lol, I’d pay others to help out when needed. All this and sadly allot of their family members are still alive. They yous older people yup the curb, because they ate yup busy in their own lives to think about their family members.
I’m sorry about babbling on here. But I’m now down to one person left, as didn’t want to take anyone else on as i keep thinking it’s time for a move and maybe getting back to being me once again. Other charities ate animal rescue, as animals can’t always speak for themselves.
But i give, but i get so much b back in return. As i get yup replenish my mind spirit soul and heart, as does it feel good yup do so. But i will say that i find peeled that are worthy of it. So i don’t always do for just anyone. I Subaru clear of ignorant people. But working with elderly people i basically keep them out of the nursing homes and in their own houses.
But i also understand the pain and suffering i live in, almost daily. And very much appreciate you all, for being your beautiful selves. Whether your a Mistress, sissy, ts, transsexual or crossdresser, Y/your A/all beautiful in your own rights. As do i for one, appreciate You
I quit my job back in January as i got tired of being used for all the wrong reasons lol. But suppose to go to work here this week haha. Job probably won’t work out as the boss told me to take my earrings out and loose my nails haha. Wait till he sees my whale tail some day. I’m guessing that will probably be my last day with him. Giggles. As doo i wear women’s jeans and yes i love them tight. It’s the little things in my life, that maybe make me feel better out more normal with the body matching my mind.
But possibly you have a donation cup somewhere on your site, as being off few months now, upon getting back to work, it’s love yup Give you something, as i personally find you most deserving of such things.
Thank you!
I also see a gynecologist twice year for checkups and making sure my body is in check. But I’m on 6mg of estradiol and 100mg of spironolactone daily. Female hormones. Which makes me weaker muscle wise, than most natural born Superior Women.
Though I’m TS, natural born women, will always be above me, on almost every level. As do women all yup often get the shaft in my eyes. Sadly really. As they bust their fannies daily to prove themselves worthy in a man’s world. I personally think it should be men, proving themselves worthy in a woman’s world. Sincere.
I have a 38-28-41 measurements as well as B cup, and thankfully still growing. My obgyn asked me to hold of on breast augmentation last year as did she up my estrogen intake as did she tell me i’d be a C. So I’m giving it time.
As far as jacking off, for me anyways, since having my estrogen levels bumped up, those days of getting release ate pretty much over haha. As i get more out of rubbing my nipples than i ever got out of rubbing the thing off between my legs. As do i often times love being on edge. It’s like the tingles and shivers that go thru my body are like so amazing and intense haha. I love it. But i will say i find myself horny beyond belief or more on edge maybe. As its like sometimes all i can think about is teasing to flirting to pleasing and pleasuring Giggles. Is like over the top aft times. I had a platonic girlfriend which i absolutely loved. Not sore she’s the right one though to go any further with. But I’m definitely bi sexual. Though i never liked using the thing between my legs and thankfully it’s not possible anymore as being on HRT is like being in chastity. I think i came 4 times last year. Once when i walked thru the park. And there’s no more white in my cum anymore, but all clear and watery
Well, that’s progress!