I remember when I was young and the future seemed like science fiction. We expected flying cars and robot butlers by this time, did we not? We can buy a Roomba to vacuum our homes unassisted, which is the closest thing we have to a robot butler, but that’s not really all the development we wanted.
It’s a good thing that feminization is evolving, too. there is tremendous promise in us but just like science, we need constant work. It’s not going to happen overnight, and there will be alot of trial and error but one thing is clear. We need a plan to reach our goals. We need to be honest with ourselves about the progress we want to make, and investing in ourselves will be crucial to our advancement. For sissies and cross dressers, the struggle is inevitable, but if one is to devote the time, it’s very worth it.
The Uphill Feminization Battle
Between the inner tug of who we have always felt we were, the external expectation of what others want and the longing to feel equal and free, it seems like an uphill battle because it is. This is not the time to have flimsy, silly dreams or reach for what others have. Because we are unique, our destinations and the best paths to take are, too. The truth is, we’re not getting any younger and we have this body and mind for the long haul.
Truly take stock. Do inventory. I do not mean of your panty drawer or lipstick shades. I refer instead to anything that stands in the way of you being your best self. Do you struggle with self esteem because you are unhealthy? Are you suffering with low immunity because you need to get back to basics with sleep and self-care? Would you like to work on toning your muscles? Are you interested in joining a book club to expand your social opportunities? Need to stop purging your feminine items once and for all? Finally need to write that classy personal ad in hopes of finding a true partner? Want to explore more of the spiritual side of things to feel a new closeness with yourself? Work too damn hard and need to take more time for you? Maybe you know that your job is a personal and professional dead-end, but you lack the motivation to get off your pretty, pantied bottom and do something about it.
Building YOU From The Inside Out
As I’ve said many times, you cannot decorate a house before you build it. Foundation is key, and every grand structure begins with a blueprint. It is the strength of beams and steel that steady and support you. Don’t like what you’ve built in the past? Tear it down and build again.
Lip gloss is easy. Painting a pretty face is fun. But you are cheating yourself if you do not build from the inside out. You will waste time. Don’t waste time. We don’t know how much time we have, and that’s the truth.
A Feminization Mistress For You
I write for sissies because I am your feminization Mistress. They don’t make me write these things, you know. I do it because I feel it and love it. I feel led to guide and inspire feminization in a fresh and real way that you can apply to your life. Feminization is a grand concept but it’s also a solo effort to be cultivated in you. You stand on the cusp of your new life, and your tools are within reach.
Go ahead. Astound yourself.


I agree with you. It’s harmless fun fetish. I’ve been dressing since 1998 and I love it as it’s break from everyday life. I plan to keep doing it. I want to find women but if not then I’m not going to lose sleep over it. If i do I’ll come clean and tell her right away. I need to have feminization mistress full time for 2015 and beyond. It starts in 2015.
Good for you! Best of luck with all of your feminization goals this next year!
Ms Amber ~ What I love most about your posts is that each and every time I finish reading I have something to think about. This time is no exception. Ironically, I have been thinking about some of the points you made. (No not my cosmetics or panty drawer – lol) Even a Mistress can take inventory of her life. I think my best plan for 2015 is to leave some things behind in 2014. I love that you stressed looking within ~ always the best place to start. Happy New Year my fabulous friend.
This is a very exciting time of year to get ready for big things, Mistresses too! Happy New Year to you, as well!