Hello, ladies!

Last week, I talked about going out in public and engaging a store clerk for a bra fitting. I sincerely hope you purchased a little something and now have a sexy pair of panties (at least one!) with a bra that you can call yours.

Don’t hide your frills, sissy girl!

When you’re a frilly sissy, it’s fun to shop, try on pretty items and own them. There’s no reason why you should ever feel odd or out-of-place in a boutique or consignment shop. Malls are fun to shop, as well. But with the sheer amount of people, I understand why you might want to keep your shopping a bit more private and frequent smaller shops. Just don’t feel like you have to be stuck in the house! Supporting smaller stores instead of chains can feel pretty good and help you form friendships with clerks that get to know you.

What to do with those bra and panties?

Wear ’em! But before you get too brave too fast and jump ahead to wearing them outside your home, get to know them inside your comfort zone first. Take a luxurious shower, put your new lingerie on and wear them in the house all day. Look at yourself in the mirror and really see yourself. Yes, your inner transition is far from complete. But get comfortable with the curves of your body in your bra and panties. Allow yourself to feel beautiful. Nothing happens overnight. But take the steps you need. Baby steps? That’s fine. Just don’t stop moving forward.

You might even take a few pictures in your new items. Keep them private, or don’t…..it’s up to you. And just because you shopped publicly doesn’t mean private shopping is off limits. I do alot of online shopping myself! Once you know your true size, you have somewhere to start. Go ahead and build a little collection of items that make you feel pretty! You should see my closet!

It’s fun to be a sissy. It can also be sexy, but it’s more than all that. Sissies are sensitive, and that’s a beautiful thing. When they say ‘Take time to stop and smell the roses’, don’t skip past it. Enjoy every bit of what we’re exploring and discovering together. I know that your journey may not have always been perfect. There may be pain in your past. But there’s beauty in your present, and in your purpose. I love helping you, and I’m far from done. See you next week!