Hello, ladies! I hope all of you had a lovely Fourth of July.

Today, it should be no surprise that I want to talk about women. When don’t I? But I’m not referring to the women you are all transforming into. No, I mean any strong female presence in your life, whether real or accessed by phone. Whether you are a sissy or a crossdresser, it can be quite difficult to embark upon a feminization journey without a woman to guide and support you. And because you should be able to access female assistance from one or both possible areas, none of you should have to be without a little support.

Sissies and crossdressers supported from home….

It is my firm belief that those who are born female often possess tremendous ability to help sissies and crossdressers. To truly embrace feminization is learning a new language, and who better to teach than the native speakers? Think about the women in your life that either know your feminine dreams or could listen with an open mind and loving heart. Some of you already know a woman that could be a trusted resource or ready confidante, someone discreet and who is not judgmental. She might be excited to help you shop, give you female advice and answer your questions. The amount of time this person can commit to you may vary, but if you know a woman that fits this description, I fully encourage you to consider opening up to her. Everyone needs someone, and there’s nothing to be embarrassed about.

Although sometimes, you just have to leave it to Mistress….

Some of you may balk at the idea of opening up to anyone that you know. I don’t know the path you walked before we started, and the fear of rejection may be too strong. I understand. For those of you that prefer to remain more private, I urge you to please open up to a Femdom Mistress here at LDW if you haven’t already. There are many (not just me) that are willing and ready to help, advise and dish about fashion and makeup. Of course, every Mistress has a different style. If you prefer a sensual Mistress over a dominant one, do a little ‘Mistress shopping.’ Of course, I’m here and would love to talk to you, but I also understand how personalities need to find their fit. I want you to feel comfortable and open while you let walls down gradually and allow yourself to experience the guidance that a Mistress can provide. No matter what route you take, someone is there. Please reach out and don’t be afraid to ask.

Remember, as badass as Dorothy Gale was, she wouldn’t have gotten very far on her own.
She needed her friends, and you do, too.