I know, I know. You expected fashion, yes? Well, I interrupt your regularly scheduled Amber Academy to bring you the response to an earlier blog, the conclusion of ‘A Secret Sissy Waiting For The Right Time, Part I. It has nothing to do with fall fashion, but it has everything to do with being a sissy. My caller in Part 1 had literally put true self on hold for everyone else and was too worried about what other people would think if he announced he was a sissy. At 50 years old, he was now asking me When Is The Right Time To Be A Sissy?

Clothes will wait until next week.

Embracing your sissy self

I always tell people that your life is divided into two parts. The first part is determining who you are, and the second part is all about how you will spend your life once you know. Some people know right away who they are and live every day literally sucking the marrow out of life. Too often, we ‘find ourselves’ at a much older age. This does not mean you’ve wasted your life, but once you know who are, you must live a life that’s true to who you are. You are worthy, and deserve nothing less.

People make mistakes. We get ourselves in situations and our hearts can change. You may find yourself identifying more and more with the sissy (or cross dresser) lifestyle and know in your heart of hearts that you are meant to dress up, live like a woman and/or start hormone therapy.

Perhaps you married a woman at one point and have only grown to be more of a sissy as time has gone on. But you can take care of responsibilities that resulted from a marriage or relationship without being part of that relationship. If you let other people stamp you down, (even if they don’t know they’re doing it), you will grow bitter and resentful. Your self esteem will take a hit and might never recover. You won’t be healthy for any relationship. You will be fragmented. You will be angry.

My sissy caller

My heart broke for my sissy caller, hearing the pain in his voice at feeling that his life and years had passed him by, that he never got to be his true self. He wanted nothing but to live as a woman. He had spent years trapped in male clothes, when his heart and soul were female. I told him to stop waiting. I’m saying the same to you. Stop waiting. You may need to make decisions that other people are not ready for, but no one else lives your life and knows what you need. If you have married a woman and need to leave her, be honest with her. She deserves that much. If it’s more than just you and her, be responsible for the products of your marriage.
That’s all you owe.

The time is now. The time to be a sissy is now.
Dress, strut, primp and pose if that’s what you were made to do. Go out dressed and feel like a million bucks. Apologize to no one for who you want and need to be.

Next week, fall fashion. I promise. I just had to answer this, and have you all see it.