I love a man in chastity. Few things make me happier than a chance to lock a man up and change his whole world. Regardless of whether a man is submissive or dominant, something happens when you take their cock away. It doesn’t matter if that cock is big or small. It makes an impact.
All cocks can benefit from chastity
For men that have a smaller cock, chastity helps them remember that they are meant for service. Depending how small we’re talking, you likely can’t benefit from that little penis anyway. If a man can’t be used for the one thing that they should be able to give you, why in the world would you let him keep it? It is not enough for them to merely accept their failure as men and go about their business, assuming that because it is unchangeable, there should be no consequence. Men with a laughable micro-penis need to be more than just self-aware. They must be prepared to accept whatever a woman decides to do about it. What’s fair, what’s unfair….it all must go out the window, along with their own self-pity. You don’t choose your cock size, of course. But it now has more to do with what a woman feels you deserve, not how much you may feel her choices are now just to pick on you. If a woman knows that you have a non-existent penis and is still talking to you, yield to her decisions, loser! The Universe pre-destined you to be alone, so any attention a woman pays you now is pretty damn special. Your service is now your offering, and it is in exchange for what real men give.
Chastity has a different effect when a man has a larger cock. There’s still a psychological aspect to it, but it affects them differently because they have gone all of their lives feeling adequate and equipped, sometimes very much so. For a man that is used to having some level of control over his own life, losing his prized possession and sense of masculinity offers a special thrill. Many men go through life having their well-endowed cock as a silent guarantee that they’re ‘good enough’. No matter what life throws at him, some men can play their Cock Card and instantly have one-up on scads of other men. Knowing he’s carrying an adequate tool to get the job done means that he’s more than just a nice face. He’s probably no stranger to casual sex or relationships, and have likely pleasured many women with the one thing that guarantees that he’s a real man. Taking that away changes everything. Suddenly, Mr. Have It All Together crumbles completely, and there’s no regaining control again, not as long as a woman is running the show. It’s exhilarating for the woman to have that control, and the man cannot help but feel turned on, although it seems like he shouldn’t be aroused.
Don’t miss the second part of this blog (coming soon), where I will discuss chastity for behavior modification, and the opportunities to serve in chastity!
Chastity is ultimate submission. Ms Delia & Ms Violet want to lock me up. I’m nervous and scared. But they said it’s long overdue as it’s been 7 years of stroking freely and I need to be in cage:( they said also it’s punishment for sneaking in their panty drawer and trying on their bras/panties:( and they plan to keep me in bra/panty all the time along with with legging/yoga pants/pumps/boots. I said if you lock me they will notice cage but they just giggled and said don’t worry. Ms Violet also put on French white tip press on nails on me to:( and whatever Ms Delua put in my tea gave me small petite girlish body and c cup breasts which really hurt unless I wear bra. They also have me using rise water to give my cheeks soft velvety feel. They are turning me into a girl. Please help me Ms Amber. I don’t want to be a girl.
Oh yes, you do. You fucking love it! =)
Your right:( I’d be crazy not to have 2 hot mistresses do this to me. After all I was wearing their bra & panties and yes I did want to get caught.
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Ms. Amber ~ I couldn’t agree more, all men need to try chastity. And not on their terms, a woman needs to control it! I have actually found that many of the small dick guys like chastity because for the first time a woman is actually interacting with them sexually – even if it is by not having sex. And those well endowed ones, well they just need to be put in their place and learn their cock is nothing unless we say it is. Can’t wait for the second part of this post!
Yeah, I was pretty excited to tackle the subject of chastity….so many of our callers are interested in it!
i have been in Chastity for going on 41 Days now thanks to Goddess Mandy. She has promised me no more than 4 times this year at a release if I am lucky. I can officially say that everything changes from the time her cock is locked away. Your whole demeanor changes towards all women. When they walk by you smell their perfume and soap and it is delicious. I started taking college classes again just because my focus was now even more intentional now since I could not worry about playtime anymore. I just hope every man gets the privilege of being locked away by a Mistress once in their life.
I truly feel that it’s something that every man should experience. Until you truly understand the psychology of what is happening, I could see how it could seem restrictive to some people. However, when your Mistress is the perfect fit, restriction actually frees you.
Mistress Amber,
I’ve never been locked in chastity but I imagine it being emasculating but also more natural. As someone with a small penis it would remove the idea that my penis is a sex organ and reinforce that it is simply a reminder that I am not a man.
….not just that you are not a man, but that a woman is in charge! *wink*
I understand Mistress Amber. Though I already know the woman is in charge. 🙂
There are fewer things of beauty than when a man truly gives up control of his cock and all he holds dear to his Mistress. Touching on the psychological aspects of chastity, for many men, control IS synonymous with masculinity. So by having him show his deep trust and commitment through giving up his cock to be caged is wonderfully touching especially since he can no longer touch his cock.
I agree! There’s alot of release that comes with chastity, it’s a man releasing his control. For sure. It’s so much more than not being able to masturbate!
I’ve never met or spoken to a sissy that wasn’t gay. Even when I have had a session with a sissy that has told me that he’s ‘just in it for the clothes’, he has exploded into his own hand after talking about cock with me. Everytime.
Question: When you say that the sissy wasn’t gay obviously they aren’t straight if they suck cock but they could be bi. Are you saying that they all become homosexual and give up women forever?
I’m confused on how your question pertains to this specific blog entry. Did you mean to ask this question in response to my Jan 14 blog about sissies and cross dressers?
Regardless, some sissies still claim to love women and I don’t doubt that they are still appreciative and aroused by the female form. Breasts, ass, legs….the body of a woman is like art. But the pull of cock is unmistakeable. I believe that many men could be technically bi, but I don’t believe that these specific men would ever choose a woman over cock.
Sorry Mistress Amber I was confused by your comment here which is why I asked. What do you define as being gay is it choosing cock over a woman even if there is also a desire for woman or is it desiring only cock?
It might not make sense, but even when a man is bi, I sometimes call it gay. He’s more gay than straight! Technically, he may be bi, but yeah. I call it gay if I’m not being specific.
Gay bi straight it can be confusing but even though i don’t like or date men i do love cock strap-on women or T. Girls are a real turn on which made me like cock in the first place. But if you can’t find a T Girl or a strap-on woman you still crave the cock.I found that the young slender faggy girly fem boys were more to my liking than the bigg dick muscular men still cock is cock faggots. Either end of a cock your are on your a fag if your with a man who has a cock even if your being sucked by a tiny penis caged sissy your a fag . If your being pegged by a mistress and never had a real cock your a wanna be faggot.
You’re right about that last part for sure!
Hi Mistress Amber, I have thought about permanent chastity but wondered if it was truly possible? It just seems that chastity is the first step towards slavery.
Of course it’s possible, and it’s something I have done many times!
Yes Mistress thankyou. Chasity is a wonderful experience. Thankyou.
You’re welcome.