This week, I talked to a sweet sissy that called me wearing new panties. When I inquired about the remainder of the outfit or if they were wearing a bra or stockings, I was met with silence. So I asked some fact-finding questions and discovered that my caller lived alone and had for years. Sissy attire? Minimal. Panties? Three pairs. They used to have a pair of pantyhose. No pretty night wear, usually sleeps in sweatpants or boxers and wishes they had more pretty things. Was it a money issue? No, they said. Their lack of girly attire had nothing to do with cost. They lived in a big city and had plenty of shopping opportunities, too. So what was it? Why did they lack things they wanted badly if literally nothing was holding them back?

Timid Sissy Gets A Nudge

My timid caller was dumbstruck. I’m not sure if they had ever actually sat down and asked themselves my question! I gently reminded them that they lived alone so their rules were the rules, that when you live alone, you can play the bongos naked like a certain actor I read about once. You can smear peanut butter all over your body or eat pizza until you hurl. You’re the boss. They knew that, of course. But they were a bit hesitant.

My sissy caller didn’t always live alone. They once had a wife who left after many years of marriage but wifey had ruled with an iron fist. My caller had been divorced and on their own for years but was still somewhat stuck in the old thinking that they had to ‘lay low’ in sissy life like they had when they were married. They had spent so much time in a situation where they had to stamp down who they really were that now that the cage door was open, they were almost nervous about being free. My caller wanted to be en femme much more but now wondered if their time had passed now that they were older. I was sad that they were stuck in that headspace! But it was time for a change!

New Rules

The more you immerse yourself in sissy life, the further you get on the journey. If you’re living alone, do everything you want. Do it all! Paint your toenails or experiment with a little makeup. Wear pretty night clothes and fill your shower with girly smelling body wash and shampoo. Invest in some breast forms, take advantage of panty sales, and do anything else you can think of that would make you feel feminine. Even if you have to wear boy clothes at your job and be a secret sissy outside the home, your home is your haven and the safe place where you can shed everything else and be you.

Talking to my caller about this, I could sense that it was sinking in. They were getting more and more excited about possibilities, shopping and freedom. The sky is the limit! Do you want to have a proper bra fitting in a public boutique? Maybe even branch out and do something sexually as the woman in you emerges and takes the reins? You can go beyond those dreams and I can help!

Life’s Too Short….

Life’s too short to be unhappy or feel boxed in. If you live alone or even if you’re married but you and your wife live separate lives, chances are, you can spend more time in sissy life than you do, even if it’s in small ways. If you crave being the woman you know you are inside, don’t let anyone in your present life or past relationships or situations hold you back!