If there’s one thing some cuckolds struggle with, it’s feelings of jealousy. It might be very difficult to see the woman you love find pleasure with another, and Mistresses will be the first to tell you to suck it up, buttercup! But what happens when the jealousy is what gets you off? What happens when seeing her being touched, opened, filled and fucked is exactly what you need to cum, when it’s not you. She doesn’t want you. He has her and it drives you wild? That’s zelophilia, the erotic pleasure of being jealous. If wanting someone that another person has makes you aroused, you’re a zelophile and it can push you right over that delicious edge!

Is Zelophilia Your Thing?

Maybe you have told your cuckoldress that jealousy gets you off, but maybe you haven’t. Maybe you’re keeping that dick-pleasing, green-eyed monster feeling to yourself and that’s ok. If your wife or girlfriend knows this sexy kink you have, she might really play it up for your pleasure.

Of course, your kink may have a downside. It’s entirely possible that in the midst of your arousal, you feel betrayed and emotional by your hotwife. If you are being cuckolded, there’s really not much you can do. If you were the kind of man she needed, she never would have looked elsewhere. So you have to make zelophilia work for you. You’re going to have to let the hurt feelings go so you can usher more sexy feelings in. You might not be able to help that you’re a zelophile, but letting it be the sexual, erotic current it is all a matter of perspective, acceptance and surrender.