How many times have you fantasized about your wife or girlfriend with another man? Maybe you’ve played it all out in your head a thousand times. But if you’re seriously considering becoming a cuckold, there’s a few things to think about. When your wife takes a lover, it can be thrilling, sexy and feel a little taboo for everyone. It might even seem like the perfect answer for your bi-curious fantasies. But as exciting as it is, it’s a life change that requires complete consideration.
Straight talk from a real cuckoldress….
First of all, once you shift your relationship and become a cuckold, there’s no going back to exactly the way things were if you change your mind. When your wife cuckolds you, it’s a big decision that requires sacrifice and submission on your part, and nothing but excitement (and amazing sex!) for her. After you’ve opened the door for that woman in your life, get ready to see a different side of her. You might be surprised at her new interest and readiness in sexual things she may not have been receptive to before! This isn’t a coincidence. It’s more likely that she is excited at the prospect of a new cock to play with, and has been ready for a little sexual excitement for some time…..just not with you! Living a cuckold lifestyle takes dedication on your part to consistently take the backseat, and this can be a bumpy transition for some men. There’s really no ‘going back to normal’. Chances are, you had difficulties truly pleasing her anyway, so why would she give up great sex once she finally gets it?
The second point to think about when entering a cuckold lifestyle is that it may not go exactly as you hoped. Just because your wife takes a lover does not mean that you will automatically be part of it. If it’s your fantasy to be present, watch and participate…..prepare for both scenarios. Maybe you’ll be invited once or every time, but for many cuckolds, their wives/girlfriends are not interested in sharing their lover. It may start out as sex, but grow into more between them and then, you’d just be in the way. I have spoken to many men that are home alone, waiting for their wives to return. The cuckold is not necessarily ‘in the loop’ about any of the plans, because his opinion is not needed or considered. That cuckolded husband is left at home to make his own dinner, mind the family and wait for his wife to return stretched and filled, all without him. She may not even talk to you when she gets back. She may go straight to bed, or expect you to eat the fresh cum of her lover, still inside of her. Do you eat cum? You better learn! Once your wife starts taking a lover, you’ll be expected to do all sorts of things.
Those are just two things to consider about the cuckold lifestyle. Next week, I will finish this entry and share two other aspects of being a cuckold that you should be thinking about if you are serious about wanting your wife to have sex with other men.
