I am excited about this new series! But before I jumped right into giving you instructions to fine-tune your feminized self, I wanted to talk about one thing first.
So many of you are on a feminization journey, and after five full series here at LDW as your feminization Mistress, I know I have your attention. (Thank you!) But on many calls with the sweet sissies and cross dressers that call me, there seems to be a recurring theme, and that is that we are so different from each other. Yes, our anatomy is quite different, I will give you that. But that’s where it stops. Underneath, we are very much alike. Whether you are being currently and actively feminized as a woman or you are a natural-born like me, we have alot of the same struggles. It’s true!
Confidence is the ultimate feminization goal
Being a Mistress, it’s a good life and I won’t tell you that it isn’t. But I am not always the most confident person. I still wake up with the occasional blemish. I still make faces in the mirror at hair that won’t cooperate. I still run stockings and chip nails and have horrible days where I go home and collapse, wondering if I can just cancel tomorrow altogether and stay in bed instead. Sometimes I even take alot of selfies because I’m just not happy with the light! Of course, some days are fabulous and I’ll wear a dress that practically stops traffic. Some days, I am on fire, and everything goes right. I guess what I’m trying to say is that we all teeter-totter. We all have those beauty ups and downs, those confidence ups and downs.
But before we can emulate beautiful, classy, sophisticated women and embark towards elegance and self-improvement, we need to accept our likeness. We must understand that despite our beginnings, we are still side by side. Nothing you read on the Internet will physically make you a woman, but there is nothing stopping your psychological and emotional transformation while being feminized. However, you’ve got nothing without confidence. Confidence is the ultimate feminization goal, babe, because make-up doesn’t make it!
So cut yourself a little slack. Quit telling yourself that you’re far off the mark, or that you might even be a lost case. Feminization is a journey that we take together, but as we move towards fine-tuning, confidence building and self-acceptance will be the real milestones.
Think about that this week, and tell me what you think. I want to hear it.
(And on a side note, did you see my post a few days ago about the Sissy Pageant? Time is running out to get your submissions in if you want to enter! Check out that blog here!)
For me its having you & the other mistresses taking me with you shopping and making me try on bras/panties/slips/dresses/makeup/perfume/lipstick. I think women’s clothes are better morevsexier then guy clothes. I’ve bought more women’s clothes legging/bras/panties/yoga pants/women’s shorts and soon dresses and lipsticks/makeup/perfume. I’d love it if the saleswomen made me her sissy if I start going monthly. I can’t think that easy as its their job to Go to work,eat lunch,then go home. Honestly I want to busted by women I know then I would come out of closet and they would make me their cream puff sissy.
Oh, you would definitely come full circle with it if you were to be busted by the women you know, Peter! I hope that happens for you!
This post was really sweet. You’re a kind person Ms. Amber. Thanks for sharing your sensitive thoughts; I enjoyed reading them.
You are so very welcome, Ashley!
You are so right Ms. Amber! With all the good, it wouldn’t be the complete experience without a bit of those bluesy, blasé days we all must deal with regardless of if we are girls/gurls.
All the dedication and diligent efforts we put forth into ourselves are so worth the hardship for the heaven that comes with it; especially those times when we feel that electrifying crackle that comes from being in your grove & feeling fabulously feminine and sexy.
Love this post
Thanks, Miss Fiona! You’ve actually been wowing me lately with your posts, so I’m quite happy that I can return the favor!
Ms Amber ~ I just love this post. It is going to be a an excellent series (as always). So many times it is easy to not see how much alike we really are. I too have had those days where I have delete every selfie or gave up on finding anything that fits right that day! Ugh – the struggles of being a girl! LOL
You aren’t kidding! I will not tell you how many selfies I have in my phone of the exact. Same. Pose. Lol
Women criticize everything about themselves. It’s a fact!