Mistresses aren’t regular women
I already have experience edging, teasing and delaying a man, more than any non-Mistress does. A non-Mistress might fancy herself quite the expert in strategy and timing, but unless she has actually wielded that control for real and received the respect of a Mistress, she’s only doing her best as a regular woman. There’s an art to teasing, and some women have mastered it. But some women lack the confidence to actually be in that position at all and are actually prudes that have watched too much ‘Sex In the City’. They imagine themselves as ‘Samantha’, but are merely ‘Charlotte’ with big dreams.
Tease and delay is not punishment
I have a cuckold husband and a sexy boyfriend, as most of you know. My marriage is about as non-sexual as you can get, while my other relationship is sizzling. However, my relationship is open and if I preach anything to women, there needs to be a little bit of waiting on his part before a man gets what he’s so desperately hoping for.
Just because he may not get that pot of gold right away doesn’t mean dates are G-rated! There can be plenty of contact, lingerie and sex toy play while he aches for the big event. Teasing without immediate sex isn’t a punishment, of course. Do you think that a man is going to be upset when you’re wearing nothing but a sexy thong and are using your Hitachi to introduce a hurts-so-good prostate attachment to his quivering ass? A nice dinner, toys, pussy worship, a few fingertip strokes on the head of his cock to make him tremble and a beautiful goodnight kiss while you push him out the door? He’s going to call you. That mind of his is speeding one million miles a minute wondering what you’ll do next.
Grooming you for service
Don’t think that torment like this is all for nothing. It’s grooming you to be a custom-made servant that worships her. It’s not merely coincidence that you’re lusting after her. She is inching you along with little treats along the way, binding you in a web so unexplainably erotic that you couldn’t escape if you wanted to. How much teasing can you take? It’s totally worth it, and you’d be a fool to pass it up!
Another great blog post Ms Amber, You are so right Mistresses stand tall and in control. Teasing, delaying and denying is just a normal daily thing that we do, nothing new for us. Making a man wait for release is to his advantage, the orgasm he will have after being delayed will knock his socks off. Most guys thank us in the end but during that teasing time I know that they are frustrated and begging to release
And how I love to hear them beg! Lol
Mistress Amber I can’t help but feel like you’re speaking to the torment you graced me with just a couple days ago. You are truly skilled in your craft and it’s an honor to receive your torture. Thank you for everything you’ve done to and for me.
Of course! I truly love what I do….I think that’s what’s you’re feeling. =)