During the entire month of December, I am going to be running a contest with two great prizes. Exciting, right?
Essay Contest Details
This is actually 2 contests with 2 winners and a choice of 2 prizes. That’s right, you have options!
Also, this contest is open to everyone. Are you a cuckold, cocksucker, cross dresser or sissy, painslut, cum eater, slave sub, naughty fetishist or locked in chastity? I talk to everyone, so this is open to everyone.
Answer ONE of two essay questions and your comment on this blog post counts as your contest entry. Once I approve your entry, you will automatically be entered.
Each essay question will have ONE winner and EACH of the two winners will get to choose a prize.
Big prizes for lucky winners
What are the prizes, you ask?
How about an opportunity to be a guest blogger** for 1-4 entries, dates to be negotiated? What a spectacular way to reach the masses! This is a chance for you to get your work seen, to share your thoughts and be immortalized forever in the LDW archive! Only want to write once? No problem. Like I said, you are welcome to the spotlight up to four times.
The idea of blogging doesn’t grab all of you, I know. For those of you interested in instant gratification without the journalistic feel, I am also offering one free ten-minute call with me, your favorite.
Ok, Amber. I’m ready to write!
It’s all about you blowing me away with your answers to these questions: (Pick one)
1) What is your favorite kink? Describe the first time you experienced that kink in real life. (No characters under age 18.)
2) What was the best call you ever had with a LDW Mistress? Describe. Or, for those of you who have never had a call with a LDW Mistress, describe what a perfect call would be like.
Please make sure that your essay entries follow the rules of LDW. They can be any length.
The fine print
1) If you win and choose the guest blogging prize, you do so understanding that blog entries need to follow LDW Rules, will need to be at least 350 words and are passed through Amber to add links (like her own blogs have).
2) The same person cannot win both contests, but submissions to both are accepted.
This is such a yummy idea, Amber. Wishing the best of luck to anyone who enters. What’s really awesome is that it’s open to people with lots of different kinks and interests. Just goes to show how open and adaptable you are as a Mistress.
Thank you! The best thing about LDW is the variety. I am always surprised to find the different nuances of our callers and admirers, and the idea of seeing these same people release their creativity is something I’m eager to see! Plus, everyone likes a little pat on the back sometimes…and they’ll get it if they win!
A chance to be immortalized on an LDW site?!?! Oh wow! What an awesome opportunity for all our little pets! I know of some sissies that are already creaming their panties at the mere thought at having all eyes on them so to speak. I can’t wait to read the entries!
Neither can I! It’s the first time I have run a contest. There are many talented writers out there in LDW Land and I’m excited!
Amber,
We haven’t talked and today was the first time I read your blog. I read dozens of them in the last couple hours. I feel like you could easily write a book on abstinence, homework assignments, teasing, dirty talk, seductive verbal humiliation, guided masturbation, edging, forced strapon, cuckholding, coerced-bi, forced cum eating, and CFNM. All of which are kinks of mine. If you did write a book, I’d probably read it cover-to-cover in a night like a desperately submissive whore hoping to gain your favor. To that point, I like the challenge you gave in this blog post. I suppose it’s too late to turn in a submission. Since I like the competitive nature of the challenge I’ll turn in a submission anyway, even if you give it an F for being late. 🙂
Option 1 (essay question): what’s my favorite kink? Short answer: mind fucking.
At the core of every kink, there’s mind fucking. Maybe it’s a copout to say it’s my favorite because it covers such a broad swath of other more specific kinks. Still, I like it because of the euphoric feelings it achieves from certain various kinks. If a domina is able get to know a submissive well enough to understand his desires, insecurities, motivations, triggers, limits, fantasies, and more; and genuinely relishes the opportunity to manipulate each at the right time and place and in the right manner; she can have a powerful impact on the submissive’s mind. I’m not suggesting a damaging effect (although that is possible if done wrong), but rather a limited duration euphoric effect that at its peak(s), can put a sub in sub-space. I’ve felt it before through a combination of both physical and psychological kinks and it was intensely good. I feel that it’s something that would most likely be achieved in a lifestyle relationship but possibly in an ongoing professional relationship as well. There needs to be a bond between the dominant and submissive. Walls have to be taken down, especially by the submissive. Communication needs to be unabashed and free-flowing by both. Listening and understanding is essential. Leading and following are equally important. Allowing her to naturally manipulate the knowledge she gains over time, to weave a web he gets tangled in. Increasingly keeping him off keel by playing on his more specific kinks: tease/denial, dirty talk, chastity, cuckholding, homework assignments, etc. She would know him well enough to stay 10 steps ahead and have him fumbling and suffering various forms of consequences along the way that play on his more specific kinks. Making him feel awkward, embarrassed, cherished, humiliated, loved, motivated, psychologically/physically captive, and more, to achieve the desired results. Remembering to do all of this in a safe, sane and consensual manner, even if parts of the mind fucking are derived from consensual non-consent in which case there would still be a safe word.
At least you realize you’re late. Really late! =)
That being said, that was a thoughtful submission, and I agree with you on many points. Maybe you will catch the next contest if/when I do it again!?