So often, I talk to callers that beat around the bush and avoid the real reason for their call. They ask me questions about my sub, and my practices with him. There’s just something in their voice, like a longing. They might even hint at an interest in cuckolding, but that’s not quite it. Just come out and say it….I already know, silly!
Ways To Know If Your Cock Needs A Lock:
To know if you are a candidate for a chastity device, ask yourself a few questions. If these resonate with you, don’t ignore it. It’s a sign!
1. Do you have a teensy dick? If you do, it’s likely not pleasing anyone anyway. Any girlfriend or wife of a man with a little clit dick is likely already cheating on you. Don’t be shocked. You can’t expect a woman to live without sex, can you? She likely stays with you because you’re a nice guy, but being nice doesn’t make a girl cum. You’re probably only good at going down on her anyway, and you certainly don’t need a dick for that!
2. Are you already wearing panties or have you been caught in panties? This is a big question. Chances are, if you’re a bit girly and submissive, you already think of your dick as a clit. Many of you have a dominant wife or girlfriend that has caught you or knows about your secret panty fantasy. You might as well have her lock you up, because she doesn’t see you as a man anyway.
3. If you are not girly but actually a straight crossdresser (I know many!), chastity may fascinate you and make you curious to try it. There’s nothing wrong with exploring something new. It might be for a sexual or non-sexual reason, and it’s all ok.
4. If you just can’t keep from touching that cock, and you need a little discipline. Some of you are addicted stroker boys that need something extreme to get your mind off masturbation because it has basically taken over your life. Handing over the power of your ‘favorite toy’ can be quite erotic!
Chastity Would Be Good For Me, I Just Need Some Help Getting Started….
If you have a wife or girlfriend, you’re going to need to tell her about your plans for chastity. There’s no way to hide it! Only you know whether or not your relationship can handle it, but if it can, I can help prepare you for your big talk. She probably won’t be surprised, but instead wonder what took you so long! The actual duration of your lock-up can be decided between the two of you, or me if you want me to lock you. My own cuckold has been locked for quite awhile now! You and I can talk about kinds of chastity devices to decide which one is best for you, and I can even supervise the locking process and orgasm control maintenance if your significant other is not interested in doing it. But you’d be surprised how many women find that they get off on the power and control of locking a man in a cock cage! It may make her a little more bold in her adulterous ways, and even come clean to you, telling you everything and confirming that you have been a cuckold all along!
Consider what I’ve said here today, and bring me your questions! As a real life Mistress, I live for control and dominance. You know you want it!
For me it’s all 4 reasons posted. MsDelia said my cock should be locked up as it’s to small as it’s 4inches. 2 I’ve been caught wearing panties and bra getting off. MsMelanie made sure of that:( as she caught me wearing yoga pants/ankle boots/bra/panty. She saw me at Victoria’s Secret took me in dressing room put me in bra/panty/slip & size 6 sheath dress as well did me in with makeup/lipstick/perfume/lotion and kissed me to get me off.
3 I do like to crossdress. What real man does that? Not many:( it’s only way I can get hard and off:(
4 I do have chronic problem of touching my cock. Ms Violet said that need to be controlled as I told her I like to get hard and off. She said I’ve been doing that for last 5 years and I need to be locked up:( I’ve never had girlfriend and I’ve never had women control me. Chastity is hot how you all can control guys. Would you keep me dressed in bra/panty/slip along with makeup/lipstick with me skin girlish soft smelling and smooth with press on nails like what Ms Melanie/Ms Violet/Ms Audrey and Ms Cindy? I’m in denile as it would be hot to have keep me dressed and locked up I do want hot women like ldw mistresses to control me keep me dressed as girl while being locked up. Will you let me have release so I can get off?
All four reasons? Then you need to be locked up, pronto! I would let you release right before I locked you, but because you’re a self-admitted addict, I would keep you caged for awhile. I think it’s the best medicine for you!
Peter is a delightful tease toy, and Ms. Violet has him beautifully trained. He’s typically on the honor system for chastity, but I think you’re right Ms. Amber—perhaps the time has come to truly lock up his cock for good!
I am completely ‘on board’ with that idea! I only wish I could do it myself….lucky Miss Violet!
Locked up for good :o:( please no:( Ms Violet has said I’ve been chronic stoker for last 5 years and has said I should be in chastity but for good:Ms Amber one call with you I will be locked up. That’s what Ms Melanie did after she got me off and put me in bra/panty/slip with makeup/lipstick and sprayed me in perfume. Ms Violet said I’m too cute/adorable/ and a sweet submissive feminine sissy boy to resist. They said I look better with petite girlish body with breasts then I do as guy:( Ms Melanie put additives in my food to give me girls body as punishment for being caught wearing her bra/panty getting off.:(
You sound like quite the Mistress’s toy! Good for you…..that makes for some sexy sessions, I’m sure!
At least you would get me off before locking me up. How long would you keep me locked up and would you have me wearing women’s clothes, bra/panty locked up?
If I had my way, I’d have you locked for at least 3 days just to begin….working up from there. You’d wear feminine clothes for our session, although you may have to wear boy clothes when you go outside. I completely understand that, you could just have your device on underneath!
I’d love to do call with you! How can I protest you when I confessed to you about me wearing that and getting off. One call with you is be locked in chastity with you after you got me off in women’s clothes. Would you have me wear bra/panty under my boy clothes with chastity on? My days of stoking will come to end once I’m locked up. Ms Lilly is right the ldw mistresses have stripped me of my masculinity by keeping me in bra/panty/slip with hairless, soft smooth petite body with c cup breasts as well as press on French manicure nails. They said they have no intention of me going back to having my old body again. They said I’m to cute to be a manly man again and I look so cute and adorable wearing bra/panty/slip with press on nails. Now I have feminine arch to my eyebrows and girlish haircut.
Yes, there will be no more stroking once I’ve locked you! And just to answer your question, all of our sessions would see you dressed like a lady should be. For sure!
Now that I’ve confessed to a lot if mistresses my days of stroking are over:( Ms Violet, you as well as Ms Cindy and Ms Audrey along with Ms Olivia, Ms Tia, Ms Sophia, & Ms Delia all know my fetish for wearing women’s bras, panties, boy shorts, as well as lipstick, dresses,slips , yoga pants as well as girls tops/turtleneck sweaters, heels,pumps, boots, ankle boots along with makeup/lotions/perfume and getting off chastity will be part of controlling my stroking 🙁 my body is so soft, girlish smooth with press on nails Ms Audrey made me put on. My face/body has girlish look with feminine haircut and arched eyebrows:( my clothes are to big to wear:( I’m down to size 6 with perky c cup breasts 🙁 mistresses said I’m to cute and adorable to be guy and said I look better as sissy boy dressed in women’s clothes. Every time I whine Ms Olivia gives me lipstick kisses and that makes me more weak, submissive and more feminine:( now that I’m in chastity as well as dressed as women may I get release so I can get off?
I will not release you until I speak to you. You know that I do not do sessions via blog, silly sissy.
I enjoyed your blog entry Ms Amber. I’ve been dabbling with chastity solo and with my wife over the years. As for your questions above. I answered yes to #1 and #4. I have a small dick, it’s not exactly tiny but definitely small, below average to be sure. I also can’t keep from stroking it. That is until recently. After some on and off play with Ms Delia I’ve given her control over my cock and she has me locked up. I lost a football bet with her and I’m currently serving a two month chastity sentence.
That makes me smile. Mistress Delia is an excellent guide for chastity and you are very lucky to have the opportunity for sessions with her!