So it dawned on me that I haven’t done one of these in forever, so I just grabbed my bag, dumped it out and am going to name everything in it for those of you that might want to know.

What’s In Amber’s Purse?
Zipties — Always! Handcuffs are played out, rope has never been my deal and zipties are extremely portable!
Michael Kors mini wallet — So cute! I’ve never been a fan of big, bulky wallets anyway.
Orange flavored Lip Smacker lip balm – I’ve been using these for years. Vegas desert air doesn’t give me a choice now! Good stuff and not pricey.
Buxom Lipgloss in Kir Royale — A little dramatic for daytime, but when I hang out with friends and meet for dinner, I bust this out sometimes.
Compact mirror — For obvious reasons.
Oakley sunglasses and case — A sweet gift from a certain man who shall remain nameless. *wink*
Phone charger — Although sometimes I forget it, dammit.
Hand sanitizer — Just a good idea overall and the pandemic reminded us.
Cash — Because sometimes debit won’t do.
Keys — Always.
Snack pack of almonds — My favorite portable snack.
Mini bottle of Togarashi (a Japanese spice blend condiment) — I put this stuff on stuff I eat when I’m out. Eggs, chicken, salads, everything. It’s non-negotiable and always with me.
Mask — from Amazon
What About You?
Those are my current ‘must-haves’. Hope you are all doing well out there in the world, staying safe and wearing masks! For those of you that carry a regular bag, what’s in it? I want to know!


I bought 5 purses from my married friend. In my purse I have lipstick/foundation/blush/compact mirror/hand sanitizer/midnight romance perfume and lotion/vibe/dildo/sun glasses(women’s)mask. with Ms Erika’s
Ongoing feminization training she has me holding purse like a women. I’m on diet to lose weight so I can fit into my dresses as well stopped going out with my tennis friends-they got fat with late night socials/eating/drinking. They don’t know I dress and that’s how I like it. With my married friend once coronavirus is over she’s going to help me further my feminization as we agreed this is what’s best and needed for me.
It’s good to see how you’re coming along, Paulina!