I love fragrance. It tells a story, makes a statement, feels beautiful when you find your perfect match and causes people to remember you. A scent mixes with your own body chemistry, meaning that no two people will wear it the same. This week, I’m talking about sexy fragrances for this season and next that everyone can wear. As lovely as female scents are, they aren’t always work or lifestyle friendly. Unisex scents are wearable by all, and still beautiful in their own way.

Sexy Fragrances For You
Some of you can wear frilly, female fragrances and I’ll be covering those later this summer, but follow this guide when choosing the trendiest scents and combos to look for when choosing something unisex! These combos won’t necessarily be stand-alone scents, but if you find these in the list of fragrance notes of the scent you’re interested in, you’ve probably found something delicious to wear!
1) Jasmine and Moss — Deep earth, warm and fragrant.
2) Orange (and basically any citrus) — Fresh, clean, bright and inviting.
3) Tobacco and Vanilla — The perfect balance of male and female when you’re out en femme or not!
4) Patchouli and Chocolate — Patchouli is a love-it-or-hate-it, but chocolate takes the hippie edge off of it.
5) Amber and Violet — an earthy musk with a romantic floral.
6) Green Tea — this is more of a fresh, faint scent that plays well with others.
7) Rose and Cedar — wood and floral for balance.
As For Me….
As far as sexy fragrances and unisex is concerned, I personally love wood, earth and floral together. Maybe it’s my body chemistry or maybe it’s because I was raised in the Pac NW! If unisex fragrances would be best for your secret sissy lifestyle or if you’re curious, I hope your consider my advice above!


What about Ralph Lauren midnight romance perfume and lotion? She uses this on my massages and cheeks as well sprayed my back/behind my ears? I was worried that others would notice but nobody seems to. No I don’t care if they do. I want girls that put me in friend zone but they don’t 🙁
Do you think I should come out of closet with them about me dressing in women’s clothes/bras/panties/wigs/
dresses/lipsticks? Also with my friend should I tell her I have mistresses that feminize me?
If you trust your friends and beloeve they support you, I say tell them everything you feel comfortable saying!
Great blog, Ms. Amber! I recently ran across a blend in a formulary that might be lovely for your sissies to try. It was lilac and clove. Sounds very unusual, but I’ve been dying to try it. It might be a little “warm” for summer, but on a heady summer night, a little heat might be just what the situation calls for. 😉
Sounds intriguing!