So some of you blog lurkers have female aspirations and have never really taken a step in that direction. Oh, you’ve fantasized. But it takes more than a fantasy to step out of the comfort zone of your real world and dress the way you’ve always dreamed. For some of you, Halloween is the perfect time to try it. It certainly is an opportunity, and a day where everyone expects a costume anyway. And not to discourage anyone that already has plans to do that tonight, but cross dressing doesn’t need a holiday. You don’t need a ‘cover’ or an excuse. You can ‘dress’ any day, right now! The only one standing in the way is you, your worries, your anxiety and your questions of what others will think. Sounds easier said than done, but it’s easier ‘done’ than you may realize. You may not live in an area where you can go out completely en femme, but evey aspiring cross dresser can venture into the female world in varying degrees.

Cross Dressing, Finally!

It’s time to stop dreaming. Dip your toe in the female pool with some sexy panties, a fruity lotion for your skin, a little toenail polish or of you live alone, a silky babydoll nightie when you sleep. Already do those things? Doll yourself up with some beauty tips from Your Truly, drive downtown (or the next town over), and take yourself out for a drink. Talk to everyone or no one. Go home alone or with a new friend. It’s up to you! But the time to live your life is now, so don’t ever feel like you have to wait for one day a year for it to be ‘acceptable’. True cross dressers and sissies don’t wear costumes, anyway. They wear regular clothes, and the ones that speak the most to their heart and style.

So live it up. Dress it up. And maybe you don’t ‘pass’, but who gives a rip? There are loads of natural born women that look like the butt end of a horse and they’re still rockin’ it, confident and loving their life out in the world. Because it doesn’t matter how you look. It matters how you feel. And it’s time to feel amazing!