Are you a panty boy? You either are, or you aren’t. If what I’m about to say ‘speaks’ to you, it’s a pretty good bet you’re a panty boy for sure!
You steal panties
Panty boys just can’t get enough. Dirty panties, clean panties, toe-MATE-oe, toe-MAH-toe. Maybe you wait until your wife or girlfriend is gone to work or out on an errand, and then you pounce. Into her dresser drawers, you ogle. Through the hamper, you dig. It’s like a candy store. The clean, the dirty,it is smoothed on your face and sniffed. It quickens your pulse and makes you sweat just a little. For hamper panties, maybe you lick that one place that was closest to her warmest spot. Bonus if it’s moist and extra fragrant! You might even suck on that whole patch of fabric, taking in that elixr, allowing it it intoxicate you. Maybe you wrap it around you and masturbate into it, desire driving you wild.
You wear panties
Maybe you wear her panties, or maybe they’re yours from a stash you have hidden. Either way, you love the feel, the brush of soft fabric, the way they hug and cradle you. Maybe you wear them until she’s almost home, or maybe you just put your pants back on and keep them near you. You feel soft, pretty, perfect and different somehow. Now, I should mention that a panty boy isn’t necessarily a cross dresser, so don’t get it confused. Just because you love panties doesn’t mean you’re interested in feminization or looking like a woman. Panties are special, aren’t they? They can lift your mood and change your day. Wearing them is almost magic to some of you!
Caught in panties? Might as well ‘fess up!
It’s possible that in your secret frill-fest, you lose track of time and are caught red-handed, wearing panties. That lady of yours could have various reactions to this, and I should warn you, it might not go well. But you’re going to have say something, so you might as well come clean and tell her you’re a panty boy. Tell her that you just love the feel of them. You might even tell her that you just do it to be nearer to her. Some women will not like it and may get defensive and angry, and you have to be understanding of that to a degree. After all, it might come as a huge shock to them. But some gals will later admit that they kind of knew something was up. Women are very observant. They know when their stuff has been messed with, and they may have just been waiting for you to own it. Some women are very cool about it and won’t mind. They might even take you shopping or point things out in catalogs. But be prepared that they change a little after that. Some wives and girlfriends will see you differently, and there’s just nothing you can do about it. Learning that you’re a panty boy might be just what they needed to take the lead more and act more dominant in the relationship. They may get a little bossy, they may want to try and sissify you or they might even cuckold you! Just the idea of these things might thrill you, and if that’s the case, admitting that you’re a panty boy might just prove to be a fun and sexy new chapter for the both of you!
So, what’s the verdict? Are you a panty boy?
Yes I am a panty boy as well as a bra boy! I confess. With my soft girlish,smooth waxed skin the soft, satin, silky fabric feels so good against my skin:( I also love wearing pumps & slips:( I look so weak, soft, feminine and submissive:( the other mistresses keep me dressed like this all the time as they caught me getting off wearing them. I’m single and know women from tennis but they don’t know I’m panty boy who likes to wear bras/slips/women’s clothes/heels/boots 🙁 I keep it secret as I don’t want to ruin friendship. I’ve kept this a secret for 17 years. But sooner or later I’ll have to confess to them won’t I?
I would be willing to bet that they already have an inkling that something is different about you. Sometimes, sissies think they’re being pretty stealth, when in fact, they don’t realize that their mannerisms give them away. With as girly as you are, it’s a little presumptuous to assume that you can hide it 100% and only show it when YOU want to. Women are very perceptive! With that being said, I think it’s also fair to say that if they had a problem with the way you are, you’d know.
They were really nice when I asked if it was ok if I could get makeover. I was scared and nervous about this. I thought they would make fun of me but they didn’t.
I’ve been going to salon for 13 years. To them it was no big deal. I guess I wanted them to be like you and the other mistresses and be a bit more forceful in having me going for makeover. I have all brothers in family and they are all married and I’m only single one who’s never had girlfriend. I always wanted to have women do this to me. Ldw mistresses are only women to do this to me. I want to have real women do this to me.
Then you need to get out there and get to know people, make some lady-friends that know you’re a sissy. I have met some lovely ladies that work in clothing stores. I bet they’d dress you like a paper doll! =)
I know I do. I just need to find time/day and I can’t seem to do this:(I hope you are right in this. If I did would they have me come to shop to try on clothes/bras weekly/monthly? I’d love to be saleswomen sissy boy. I don’t want to offend them or get them/myself in trouble/danger.
I actually wrote all about this in a previous Amber Academy series, Peter.
Check it out! https://theteaseshow.com/amber-academy-series-iii-getting-out-into-the-world-on-purpose/
Great post Ms. Amber, you’ve given our pets some great points here on how to decide if they are in fact a panty boy. And I’d like to add that I don’t think that most real panty boys can decide what they won’t first sometimes… should they sniff the panties, should they lick the crotch, or should they just go ahead and put them on?
I think true panty boys are pretty overwhelmed at the possibilities, Miss Christine! Sniffing, tasting, caressing their face with them…..talk about sensory overload!
Miss Amber,
I do ADMIT that I am a PANTYBOY! I have to say that myself have never theft of women’s panties. I have worn panties from ladies without their knowledge. So, I guess GUILTY of deception. I now Only wear panties on the permission from those who Know and are willing to assist me.
I did wear panties from a lady friend, without her knowledge that I was wearing hers. She DID find out! Wanted to know reasons WHY. Of course, I did confess why I did so. Only wear panties of ladies I RESPECT. Other than my own shop purchased knickers.
It has very much changed our friendship RULES, she is more bossy and leading me.
She now inspects my drawers and considers if I’m ALLOWED to have. I get TOLD which ones to wear, and for how long for.
All items are removed if I don’t comply! Left with the ‘Punishment Panties’ until in her good books again.
I accept these rules as I did cry in my confession and DID behave in an manner unruly.
The NEW TERMS are more to keep me inline and within RESPECT terms.
I am now happier, than I was before. Just beware as it’s a LIFETIME of Punishment of my crime.
I’m Sure Miss Amber will comment on this. I will await her HONEST beliefs on this matter.
Glad to hear that someone has reined you in! The bossiness is good for you, and will keep you within perimeters. Considering that we have talked a handful of times before, I think it’s safe to say that you aren’t at your best if you have complete freedom. The combination of having too many options with the realization that you can choose how you wish overwhelms you. People like you need guidelines, rules and consequences….both positive for obedience and punishment for defiance. I’m happy to hear that someone is filling that role for you IRL. She sounds like she has many Mistress qualities. How lucky you are!
I think one of those lycra power mesh paneled spanx-type panties would be great for punishment if the sissy wasn’t truly awful–they still feel rather nice, but they fit so snugly that their cock probably couldn’t even truly twitch–it would be flattened and squashed against their tummy. If a sissy was truly awful—saggy baggy granny panties in the most unappealing shades I can find (I have a pair a grey-poupon colored panties in plain un-combed cotton, no lace, no print, no embellishment that I use for Aubrey’s punishment pair. She cries every time.)
Oh, those sound hideous! (Why am I giggling? Lol)
Mistress Amber, that is mesmerizing! I am definitely a panty boy! I’ve had to ditch my stash, but plan on some shopping tomorrow, and some stockings too!
Glad to hear it! I definitely want to hear about what you buy!
I am such a sissy pantyboy! I started with my sister’s panties at six years old, and eventually moved on to my own panties and lingerie. I like wearing sexy thigh highs with pink bows on the top, along with pink bikini panties with lacy frills for trim, and a cute nightie. I love the feel of silky girly things on my body, and it makes me feel very sexy. My old girlfriend agreed, and encouraged me to be a pantyboy. I wish we were still together.
Never stop! Your perfect playmate is out there. Don’t give up the search!