*** Sorry this is being posted a day late. I had some things come up yesterday, but all is good now. Have a good week, everyone! ***
I recently took a call from a sissy side chick having a secret relationship with his sister’s boyfriend. The sissy had been meeting with the boyfriend behind the sister’s back for almost a year. Basically everything you could expect was happening during their naughty times together: the sissy was dressing up, sucking cock and getting fucked. You know, standard stuff. And even though the boyfriend had always been ok to the sissy in private, he wasn’t nice to the sissy at all in front of the sister. Of course, he was likely overcompensating for trying to make it seem like he wasn’t messing around with the sissy. But he was laying the ‘dislike’ on pretty thick.
The Downside Of Love
The boyfriend did NOT want his girlfriend or anyone else to find out and made it very clear that the sissy was to never say anything, and he was being pretty ugly to the sissy when they weren’t in private. The sister just accepted that her man and her brother weren’t friends. And the sissy took everything he was given, because he was in love. All of their secret time together had meant more to the sissy than he expected. He figured that public rudeness was something he could ignore. My sissy caller made it very clear to me that he did not want the relationship with his sister and ‘his man’ to get any more serious.
Sissy exposure might be thrilling for you, but could be someone else’s worst nightmare.
Sissy Side Chick, Consider This….
I know that some people reading this can understand this situation and maybe have even found themselves in something similar. But take a moment to allow your favorite feminization Mistress to put something out there. As hard as it may be to see ‘your man’ with someone else, and as tempted as you are to step in if you are tired of being a sissy side chick, you need to think beyond it. Just because you are ready to declare your love to the world does not mean that this man that the world sees as a straight Alpha is ready to be outed. To expose someone like that puts them in a tough spot if they aren’t ready to be there, and you making the decision for him could spell trouble for YOU.
There’s no telling what that man will do. He may stop talking to you altogether, or he may feel threatened and take steps beyond denial and prove that he is disgusted by your claim. It can go beyond calling you a liar. Even if he’s secretly as gay as my hair is red, do not assume that you are helping him by outing him. The truth being out in the open does not mean you’ll be together now.
Your Head, Not Just Your Heart….
I’m not saying that the situation is going to morph into a scary Lifetime movie. I’m just saying don’t ever underestimate people. When folks are pushed into a corner, you never know how they’ll get back out again. If you fall in love with someone else’s man, being a side chick can get tired quick. But making decisions for other people is potentially a very bad idea and you may have to walk away. Some men only want private fun and have decided to keep their closeted cocklust away from others. All I’m saying is think about things before you make rash decisions. If he is not willing to stand for your love, outing him could be the worst decision ever for both of you.
Safety first!!! I keep my girlish desires to myself/my masseuse/ldw calls. With my masseuse I wanted her to do this this to me as it was reason I came out to her. I’m living my fantasies through her. She’s taken me out dressed as I didn’t mind. I was told not to worry about her husband or care what others think as I’m with her. I’ve upset her 3x and I don’t want to get on her bad side so I let her have way with me in safe nonharmless way. she told me I need to accept who I am and become which I agreed with her and said I have to tell girl I’ve been friends with with for 5 years. It’s just that wearing women’s clothes/bras/panties/boots/makeup/
perfumes/lotions/Lipstick/dresses/slips look and feel so much better on me. I want both of them to take control of me in flr. I don’t mind this and want this. I was meant to be a submissive cream puff girl.
I definitely believe that’s true, Petey!
You just never know what could happen
Exactly!
Miss Amber, this is definitely something to think about. Just because sissy is in love, does not been the man feels any different. He may just enjoy the thrill of having a sissy cocksucker and another hole to fill. Sometimes, illicit behavior makes it that much more exciting.
Exactly!
Amber you are so way cool ????
Thank you!
After last night it’s safe to say I’m in female lead relationship with both my masseuse and girl I’ve been friends with. Masseuse said she will kick my butt if I spend without her knowing and now my gf said the same thing. She said I need to have both look after me. I’m not used to this but if I want to keep both on my good side I’ll have to do whatever they want and ask otherwise they will dump me and I don’t want that. I just need to put on my big girl panties and man up in telling my gf that I like that she’s taking charge of me and Iike to wear women’s clothes. I’m just afraid what her reaction will be. I’ll do this at right time, after much thought I think whatever her reaction is it will be good!! She said I’m putting to much pressure on myself with tennis matches and it’s eating me up. By telling her that I like to wear women’s clothes/bras/panties/makeup/lipstick it’s great way to take edge off and hope it will lead to her taking charge of me in flr and take our relationship to next level.
I want that for you, Petey!