It’s almost here, the biggest holiday of the year, and between the music, decorations, hype and fluff, there’s just so damn much of it! This Christmas holiday, take a little time for yourself. It can be a feminine holiday and something you remember.

Feminine beauty

Feminization is something I talk alot about, and it’s always in season. Going to spend time in a group this Christmas? Of course you want to look your best, and I write alot of blogs about that. But even if you don’t have any plans this Christmas, don’t treat Christmas just like any other day. No matter what your view on what the reason for the season is, it is still a time for peace and love, for reflection and cheer. This blog is for all the loners, the ones that have no standing plans. This feminine holiday is for you, too.

For all you sissies and cross dressers flying solo this year, take some time to enjoy a leisurely shower Christmas morning. Drink some good coffee. Enjoy a different breakfast than you would normally, read the paper, pick up a book, paint your nails. Some might ask why this day should be celebrated at all because for many it is a grey day, a lonely day or maybe even a sad day. Yes, many of us have wistful memories of those we have loved and they may no longer be with us. Those same people would be quite upset to learn that you are not valuing what you still have and that you are not squeezing every ounce of life out each and every moment. You can honor them with your zeal for life! As rough as it can be, life is a gift and each day you wake up is a day you were meant to.

Your personal holiday

So don’t beat yourself up if you eat some chocolate or indulge in other holiday sweets. Today is not the day to diet! No stress today, just you. Relax, enjoy some holiday music as cheesy as it is. Celebrate the way you want. Who knows, you may pull out a few naughty toys and give yourself the gift of pleasure. Masturbation is part of a balanced day! Just make it feminine, be dressed as the sissy girl you know you are! Perhaps you’ll give one of us Mistresses a call…..we’d love to hear from you.

If you are truly struggling with depression this season, know that Seasonal Affective Disorder is a very real thing. It’s not all in your head and I covered it in a blog here. I truly hope that every one of you feel the beauty in this season. Some of that beauty is you.