There’s nothing like a good vibrator! My trusty Hitachi gets regular use, but I am really impressed with their male attachments. My boyfriend won’t use them on himself, but he loves it when I take matters into my own hands and pleasure him. I’m happy to do it. Vibrators are great for foreplay or the main act when it comes to male masturbation and orgasm control. The speeds are adjustable depending on your mood, and that means they can be a gentle wave of relaxation or a rollicking ride of exhilaration.

Things to consider when shopping for male pleasure vibrators

Hiatchis don’t mess around! But if you haven’t tried the attachments yet, Wand Essentials is the way to go. Whether it be the Male Masturbator wand, the Hummingbird or the P-Spot Wand, don’t miss out! We’re talking serious vibrator stimulation, the lock-your-door-and-put-your-phone-on-silent kind of fun that will really get you off!

Don’t rule out other brands, of course. (I just happen to be partial to one!) But all you need to keep in mind is to choose something long enough to hold comfortably, make sure it’s easy to clean and no matter what, ensure that all your toys are phthalate-free. This is crucial, people! Phthalates are chemicals meant to increase flexibility in plastics and other materials, but they are toxins, so stay away. Also, I would advise that you always buy sex toys from the manufacturer, and not huge, online marketplaces or other sites where you might actually be purchasing a knock-off that will compromise quality. Read reviews, and make a good choice for your budget! Need some tips on cleaning your toy based on the material it’s made of? That’s right, different kinds of toys require different things. Here’s a post on sex toy cleaning!

How to use vibrators

Now, we are all aware of the first thing people do with vibrators, right? They stick them into tight (or not so tight!) little holes and go to town. But don’t limit yourself to just the obvious go-to. Spend some time playing with speed, experimenting with not only the top of the toy but the sides, as well. Skip your tip for a bit, cowboy! Play a little under your balls, up the sides of the shaft, swirling and rolling. Edge during your masturbation, of course. You want to prolong the pleasure. But don’t be shy. You and your new toy will be good friends for a long time. Play, play and play some more. And then call me up so we can play together.

Who knows…..I might just drag my toy out. Then it will really be a party!