Becoming a sissy is a special process that combines the look and feel of beauty with the inner softness that you are cultivating every day. Maybe it’s always been a part of you, but you are unsure of how to begin. Sometimes, a Mistress is needed to guide you, and that’s what I’ve tried to do. But now, I’m excited to transition to new subjects for your sissy journey.

This week, I want to talk about the way that you carry yourself. Getting up every morning to greet the world does not always have to be a loud exclamation to make sure we know you’re here. The key to femininity is to own the skin you’re in, to display a soft grace and confidence and truly enjoy the person that you are.

Femininity in practice….

I want you to have a specific picture in your head, and role models to emulate. Think back to the sweet ladies on old black and white television shows. If you recall programs like Leave It To Beaver, Bewitched, Perry Mason, The Andy Griffith Show and even Lassie, the women on those shows (and many others) possessed a certain radiance and feminine charm. They were graceful and ladylike. They crossed their legs a certain way, they spoke with dignity and they moved with beauty and purpose. Such elegance, such poise. This is your goal.

No matter how much makeup you wear or lingerie you buy, it is important to remember our role models. Have you ever seen Gone With the Wind? There was a timeless allure to Scarlett O’Hara, and it is unforgettable. Ok, maybe you want Jayne Mansfield? Perhaps even Dita Von Teese is your idol. But it’s not enough to work at looking feminine. Perfect lips and eyes are wasted on an unfinished woman, and completion is your goal.

This week, I want you to think about elegance and how you will display it. Next week, we will talk more about practical application.