Therapy is a good thing. It’s cathartic to get your feelings out and hear a fresh perspective from someone who isn’t biased or emotionally invested in any way. Personally I talk to a therapist from time to time when big things happen or are about to. It’s nice to touch base, get my head right and proceed with a clear focus. But even though phone Mistresses aren’t actual therapists, they can do pretty much the same thing as therapists. Just to confide in someone, to have someone to share your deepest and darkest with….never understimate it. They both cost money and it might even be about the same in some cases! So why are phone Mistresses better than regular therapy?
Benefits Of A Phone Mistress
Let’s just get down to it, shall we? You can pull your cock out during session, push toys into your asshole, shoot cum anywhere you like and generally be a filthy whore. If you did this with an actual therapist present, you’d be asked to leave. Actually, it might not even be a request! You’d probably get an escort out the door.
When you sit down with therapists, the objective is to open up and let down walls, but there’s no real exchange between you and your therapist. They ask you questions and you’re supposed to answer, elaborate and share. You don’t get to really ask them anything because it’s not really your business. But with a phone Mistress, there’s a give and take. Both you and your Mistress can have a real conversation. Almost all of them are open books and can be completely open. And if all you’re really craving is a Girlfriend Experience, you’ve got it. Better, right?
There’s no doubt that talking is good. But connecting is better. A phone Mistress can discuss super dirty thing, tell sexy stories and even encourage you and give you naughty homework to cultivate your kink. There’s a realness there and if you’re going to pay either way, you might as well have some fun with someone that can get you off hard!
If only insurance covered phone sex. I’m sure a lot if guys would quickly reach their deductible and then insurance would kick in.
One of the big omissions of the Affordable Care Act!
If insurance companies covered phone sex, oh that would be a new age for sure!
Ms Amber, very interesting blog post on phone sex Mistresses and traditional psychotherapy. I think the bottom line on both is found in the experience. While experiences are different in phone sex and psychotherapy, they can both be satisfying in their own way.
So true, Miss Cindy!
Ms. Amber, I could not agree with you more. We are sex therapists just as much as we are Phone Mistresses. Having someone to confide in is good for your mental health. And, let’s not forget all of our callers who seem to have the Therapist/Patient roleplay thing goign ona s well.
That’s so true, Miss Delia!
Totally agree with you on this!!!! These last 2 months have been crazy busy and I’m planning on doing more calls but on shorter basis. 15-20 minute along with custom feminization audios wherevall of you dress/lipstick kiss my cheeks and keep me this way. Phone sex is awesome!!! It’s safe and you can call in privacy of your home. And yes this is therapeutic for me in all of you keeping me like this. I’ve accepted who I am and become which is a sissy who does like to wear makeup/perfumes/lipstick/women’s clothes/ankle and knee high boots/heels/sandals/dresses/wigs. The best this for real is my masseuse has taken pictures of me with her phone dressed up/measured and fitted me in bra/had me wear lipstick/makeup and using same facial lotions and perfume she uses and she applied that on my massages and facials to keep me girlish soft and smelling. Being in female lead relationship with her is best thing to happen to me!!
Oh, of this I have no doubt, Petey!
Well Ms.Amber…I have to say that you make some damn good points there!! And as some out there might know, I have a degree in counseling. And unless you are seeing some type of “sex therapist” or someone who is insanely open minded…you are most assuredly not going to be cumming or even pulling your dick out during a face to face therapy session, that is for certain. And unless there is a sliding scale, the hourly could absolutely be about the same. But more than any of that Ms.Amber, you are SO right when you said that we are someone to share your “deepest and darkest” with! Priceless…truly priceless, I believe!! 🙂
I had a feeling you’s agree, Miss Mandy!
Ms. Amber you are right that we do perform similar tasks, but we are more fun than the majority of therapists. Masturbating with us is definitely a plus too. I think the majority therapists wouldn’t be able to handle talking about most of the things we discuss. Even though it is supposed to be a safe space, they are not always able to reserve judgement when it comes to sexual fantasy.
True, Miss Lena!